Here’s a question that was emailed to me recently:
For the past few months, my husband has been really distant. We don’t make love much and I feel like he’s beginning to move on. Things have been rocky in our marriage for some time, never to this point though. I’m hoping that you can help me find new ways to spice up our marriage before he asks for a divorce or cheats on me. Please help! I still love him.
Answer: This is a difficult situation but it isn’t uncommon. It’s always better to address these things as soon as they appear. Waiting until now wasn’t the best idea. However, it is as they say “better late than never.”
So what to do first? Where to start….
First off, always remember that you married for a reason. That spark, that passion, is there, it’s just ebbed and gone out. It’s to to rekindle it. If you can, try to take some time out and deck your house in a romantic setting. Send the kids to their aunts to play, because you are going to have a very adult night. Fill the house with roses and get some aromatic incense to burn throughout the house. Find some low volume, low key jazz music, and surprise your husband.
You see, men are natural hunters. They’re made to hunt, to stalk through the forest and eventually grab their meal. You have to tap into his primal need to hunt. You see, this is actually quite pleasurable because you are going to be tapping into his primal sex urge as well, and he will thank you for it. One way to get this effect is to leave a trail of rose petals to the bedroom or a bath.
You see, men need surprises, they need excitement, and they need something to break up their everyday lives. Perhaps you have not helped him do that? Surprises like this will give him something to look forward to, and see you as a sexual being he wants to make love to. You want to blow his mind every time he thinks of you.
This is not a one time trick. You are going to have to rework your relationship so that he sees you differently. You cannot go back to the grind and monotony that defined your relationship before. This is going to be quite an experience, but there’s no reason to feel afraid, because you can have a stronger, more fulfilling relationship from here on out. Just peruse this website, and you’ll get all the information you’ll need.
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