Dating Advice

Have you ever wondered what kind of gifts to get your boyfriend?

You’re finally in a stable, committed and loving relationship, but what’s the perfect gift for your man? Maybe you don’t want to overdo it with your gift, but don’t want to let him down?

The gifts you give your boyfriend depend largely on your status with him. They also depend on your level of commitment. In this article, we are going to explore the gifts to get your boyfriend if you are in a committed, long-term relationship.  Short term relationships don’t require a lot of thought for gifts.

In these relationships, it’s best to find gifts by listening and by focusing on memories. Listen to what he talks about. What are the things that he’s really into lately? Maybe he’s excited that the first Hunger Games film is coming out. Would he like to own the Hunger Games books? Does he already have the book?  It’s time for you to do a little snooping!  Or perhaps he could get a Hunger Games t-shirt? Maybe even a book about the making of the film?

Those are the kinds of gifts that show that you care. It shows that you are listening to him and that you are interested in him as a person.  He’ll treasure a book over an expensive dress shirt if he knows you put some thought into it.

The other kind of gift involves tapping into same mindset of finding a gift that shows that you care. Think about your favorite memories together. What are some of his favorite memories? Did he tell you the story about the time his grandfather took him to see the Boston Red Sox play, and it was such a special game? Did he tell you about his favorite Sox player? Perhaps get him a vintage jersey or other baseball memorabilia that will keep that memory alive for him.

These types of gifts make your boyfriend think back to great points in his life.  When he sees that autographed baseball card, you’ll remind him of happier times, and he’ll associate that with you.

Some guys hint at what they want. If he’s dropped subtle hints, try to use them. This can be a good way to get him something that you already know he’ll adore. If it’s too expensive, then try to get something similar.  Try to still add your own touch to it, something special and personable, such as a handmade card or a store-bought card but with your own message inside.

As long as you show him how much you care, you’ll choose the perfect gift to get your boyfriend.

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Here’s a question I received from a reader just last week:

My girlfriend and I got into a big fight a few days ago and I’m writing to you to ask, how do I make up with my girlfriend? She’s really special to me and I can’t even remember what we were fighting about. I really just want to make up with my girlfriend as soon as possible.

How Do I Make Up With My Girlfriend?
How Do I Make Up With My Girlfriend?

Answer: If you cannot even remember what you were fighting about, then chances are it was pretty petty. Don’t worry about the fight, but do worry about your level of communication. It’s pretty bad if you haven’t talked about this fight over the past few days. Get together with your girlfriend and start up a conversation. Let her say whatever she wants to without interrupting. Really listen.

Don’t worry about apologizing or feeling bad about yourself.  Remember, relationships are built on the fact that there are going to be disputes.  It’s not realistic for two people to get along 100% of the time.  Fights are natural, so there’s no need to prophesize doom and gloom before it’s too late.

The way to any girl’s heart is to listen to what she is saying. It may be difficult for her to communicate with you and share her feelings, but if she does, then be a good listener.

Next, focus on resolving the issues. You don’t have to beg for forgiveness.  Remember, be assertive.  Assertiveness is being firm and defending yourself.  It’s about self respect.  Focus on compromising and finding a solution. This is important because if you both skate around the issue, you won’t be able to move forward.

It can be helpful to give her flowers or create a homemade gift that shows how much you care. Whatever you do, make sure that it is infused with meaning. Women want to know that you truly care and they want you to prove it. Show her that you remember her favorite artist with a new mix CD or remind her of the time you first met by getting her something from that location. Don’t be cheesy with your gift.  Put some thought into it and I’m sure you can come up with something meaningful.

If you follow this advice, you’ll be back in a happy relationship in no time.  You won’t be asking yourself, “How do I make up with my girlfriend?” again.

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First Date Tips For Women
Fun, Flirting, and Dating!

First date tips for women are all over the Internet but will they really help you?

Absolutely. Take a look at some of our most important first date tips. So he’s asked you out and you want to make sure you put the best foot forward on your first date?  Great!  He got up the confidence and courage to ask you out and there must be some spark between the two of you.

Now is the time to build chemistry between you and he and start the chase.  How can you be both funny and seductive on the first date? Let him lead.  Remember, he is attracted to you because of your femininity.  Let him take the lead on the date.  Let him pay for the date and decide where to go.

Remember, dates are tests runs to see if there is any chemistry between the two of you and to see if going out is fun.  If he’s more traditional and opens the door for you, then let him, but if he’s more modern, then go with the flow. Flirt!  Now is the time to come out with your best flirting skills.  Play with your hair if he’s saying something interesting and be sure to make lots of eye contact.  Nothing builds chemistry more than constant, intimate eye contact.  It lets him know you think he’s important and that you’re interested in what he’s saying.

Some women want to know whether they should be more aggressive on the first date or if they should play the quiet female.  It all depends on the interplay between you and your date.  Men love confident women because they’ll make confident lovers, but women who are brash or vulgar are a turn-off.  Be secure in your femininity and he’ll love it.

First dates are about being relaxed and having fun with each other.  You want to enjoy the night out and not put any pressure on yourself to be someone you’re not or say things you otherwise would never say. These first date tips for women should help you make it through a successful first date. We wish you the best of luck!

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True love is like a pair of socksyou gotta have two and they’ve gotta match. – Erich Fromm.

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Sometimes it all comes down to finding the right pair.

When looking for someone to complete you, you need to find someone who will matches you. The above quote really speaks to this idea. It isn’t always easy to find others who match you.

We are all different creatures, unique individuals. We all need to find someone who matches us. Someone who makes us happy. Someone whose interests are simillar to ours. Someone that we enjoy spending time with.

Looking for someone who matches you is important.

Compatibility. I’m sure you’ve heard this word before, but a lot of people seem to think that it doesn’t matter. Opposites attract, right? Perhaps. Strong relationships though, are built on the memories and the moments you share together. They are also built on shared interests. You don’t want to be with someone who doesn’t enjoy what you enjoy. You won’t be spending any time together.

In a healthy and strong relationship, your partner will become your best friend. You will want to spend time with them. You will want to be active together. So make sure that you will both enjoy doing the same things.

Compatibility doesn’t just mean shared interests, however, it also includes personality. You don’t need to have identical personalities but your personalities do need to compliment each other. This is one of the most over-looked aspects of relationships. The only way to test the compatibility of your personalities is through trial-and-error. Use your intuition and see what happens when your personalities mix.

Remember, true love…. is like a pair of sock. 🙂

Many people ask themselves at one time or another, “How do I know when it’s time to break up?” This is a difficult subject because breakups are often difficult, especially if you have been with someone for a long time.

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Puppy love isn't always forever.

The first thing you need to do when considering breaking up with someone, is think about your relationship together. Is it rewarding? Do you deeply care about the person? How do you care about them? Do you just want to be there for them as a friend or do you desire something more? Listen to what you’re feeling.

If you still feel deeply for your girlfriend or your boyfriend, then stay with them! If you feel as though it’s time to move on, then do so! It’s all up to you.

If you think it’s time to break up with your significant other but you aren’t really sure, then consider how the relationship has been over the last month or two months. Do you get excited when you go out together? Does calling or texting your significant other feel like a chore or is it fun?

When it becomes a chore to communicate with your partner and to spend time with them, then it’s time to break up. You should be enjoying your time together, not wishing it would end.

How do I know when it’s time to break up? When I no longer enjoy spending time with my significant other or I no longer have any desire to kiss him/her and just want to be friends.

 

You might be wondering the best course of action after you’ve been cheated on…

Here’s a question I got from one of my readers.  Read it through real quick and think about it: My girlfriend cheated on me and I’m not sure what to do. I love her and I thought that she was going to be the mother of my children… I mean, we really cared about each other. Or so I thought. I’m just worried that if I’m with her now then she may be unfaithful in the future. Should I stay with her? She says she’s sorry but she didn’t just kiss someone else, she slept with someone else!

Here was my reply to him:

No. I think you should get out of the relationship. That doesn’t mean you can’t forgive her, but you can’t give her another chance to break your heart.

What do you do if you think, “My girlfriend cheated on me!”  I know, the first think you might do is make excuses for her.  Maybe she was drunk, maybe it meant nothing? Is this what she has been telling you? The thing is, you haven’t made a commitment to this woman. She is still just your girlfriend. Therefore, you don’t need to think about the fact that you’ve been married X amount of years or you have children. It’s just about your current relationship together, nothing else.

Some relationships are more serious than others.  I don’t know how long you two were together exactly, or if you have any children.  That could definitely complicate things.  If not, you need to move on and find a new girlfriend.  It’s not that hard, and if you peruse this site, you’ll easily find one.  If things are serious, then you might have to figure a way to work it out with her.  You might have to be nosy so that she doesn’t cheat on you again.  Was it just a fling, or did she get back with an old boyfriend?  If so, you may just need to dump her, and if there are kids, you might have to work something out.

When your girlfriend cheats on you, it’s her breaking up the relationship, not you.  Do not blame yourself, and don’t overreact.  She clearly wasn’t the woman that was going to bear your children.  Or at least, she doesn’t feel the same way you do.  More than enough reason to move on.

Regardless of what you decide to do, remember that this shouldn’t be about her. She made the mistake. Make it about you. Listen to your needs and follow through with them.

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Are you spending almost every day fighting with your girlfriend? If so, this isn’t healthy and you need to take action. What kind of action you take depends on how you feel. Do you like/love your girlfriend and want to stay with her? Or do you find yourself trying to care but not really caring?

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There is always the fun of making up.

1. I like/love my girlfriend and I want to stay with her.

-> Then you need to show it. Fighting with your girlfriend isn’t going to help things. It isn’t going to solve anything. It will, however, ruin your relationship. Try talking calmly and rationally with one another. Really listen to what your girlfriend is saying and she will really listen to you. Work to find a compromise. If after several days you cannot come together, then you may need to look for a good couples psychologist. Couples therapists are wonderful because it allows an objective person to come in, without any bias, and listen to you. Then the therapist can help you both to see both sides and find a way to solve things that works for BOTH of you. Finding a way to satisfy both parties is important. It’s the only way to save your relationship.

2. I try to act like I care, but I really don’t.

-> It’s time to move on. Get out of that relationship. It isn’t fair to your girlfriend and it isn’t fair to you. You’re fighting when you shouldn’t even be together. Perhaps you can still be friends or maybe it just isn’t going to happen. Either way, it’s okay. Just know that you need to do your thing and take care of yourself. Be nice when you break up with her, but don’t stay with her because you feel like you have to. You don’t. And it isn’t fair to either of you.

Are you looking for local dating opportunities? If so, you’ve come to the right place. Many people begin looking for local dating without first preparing themselves. If you hope to find someone to date then you need to be date-able.local dating

Take a good, hard look at yourself in the mirror. What do you see? It may be time to try a new hairstyle or join a gym to improve your muscle tone. Sometimes if you’ve been neglecting yourself, you’ll find that you’ve lost that bit of sparkle that you always used to have.

You also need to feel great about yourself. Men and women love to date people who are passionate about their interests in life. Join a new club that you’ve been hoping to join for some time. Try a new activity. Explore your interests.

I just mentioned exploring your interests as one way to prepare yourself for local dating. It can also be the way to actually find local dating. The best way to find someone that you are compatible with is through similar activities and interests. If you attend a church group, you may find a single significant other there. If you are a member of a running club or a book club, you may find a single significant other there. One of the best ways to find that special someone is to branch out and try new activities.

Lastly, finding local dating is really up to you. You need to actively search for speed dating groups, visit clubs or bars and join social groups or activity groups that will help you meet others. If you aren’t meeting new people, then you won’t have a chance to find someone to date.

It’s important when you are looking for a significant other in the community that you look to find them within the community. Meeting new people is the best way to find someone local to date.