Falling Back In Love

Were you unfortunate enough to lose the man of your dreams? Though it may seem like the end of the world, there is still a chance that you and your boyfriend will get back together. Many women make the mistake of thinking that their broken relationship cannot be mended. However, there are often times when it can be. The best way to fix your relationship is to learn how to make your boyfriend want you back.

The best way to get your boyfriend back is to show him what he’s missing! Some men won’t realize how much they cared about you until your gone, and don’t forget to remind him. If you happen to be going to the same event as him, make sure you look stunning and have a great time! Though he may try to be discrete about it, it is likely that he will sneak a few glances your way to see what you are up to. When he does, make sure he sees what he is missing out on!

Most men – including myself – find confident women to be incredibly attractive. Though it can be difficult to focus on your attributes rather than your flaws, it is essential if you want to gain self-esteem. With confidence you can do anything, and men will easily pick up on this. If you feel comfortable with yourself, they will have no choice but to feel comfortable around you too.

Another great piece of advice is to show him that you still care. I’m not saying to be clingy toward him and hang on his every word, because that will certainly not help to win him back. What I am saying is to be sure to show him kindness – even if the breakup was rough. If you want him back, being hostile is not the way. If he sees that you still care about him, he is likely to want you back.

Do you fear that man of yours is losing desire in you? Though you may just be paranoid, this can sometimes happen to a woman. Does this mean you should do nothing about it and just let it occur? The answer: absolutely not! There are many ways in which you can spark his interest in you again. With this helpful advice, you will learn how to get your boyfriend to want you more.

The most important tip to remember is to always have confidence. Nothing is sexier than confidence, and it will certainly attract your boyfriend to you. Though it can sometimes be difficult to ignore your insecurities and focus on all of your assets, doing so will ultimately pay off. One of the best ways to build instant confidence is to be grateful for everything you have. Love yourself and your life! If you are happy with yourself, he will have no choice but to feel happy around you.

Are you guilty of being clingy? One of the biggest mistakes that woman make in a relationship is being too overly attached to their boyfriend. Yes, it is important to show interest in him, but showing too much can make him feel suffocated. Because of this, it is important to have your own life. Do what you like to do, and don’t make every second of your life about him. Plus, the more freedom you give him, the more he will want to come back to you.

One of the quickest and easiest ways to make your boyfriend want you is to ramp up the sexy. For those of you who have seen the movie “Grease,” you know that – by adding a little leather and a lot of hair product to her normally demure appearance – Sandy was able to become the center of Danny’s universe. Though you may not own leather pants, you can still enhance your look by changing up your hair or throwing on a pair of sexy, red heels! Not only will you stun him, but you will also make him want you more.

Are you looking to go on your first couples retreat? Are you confused by all of the options? Need help making a decision? I’ll help you discover what it is that you should be looking for when booking your first couples retreat.

First Couples Retreat
Wherever you go, there you are.

So you’re ready to go on a couples retreat?  There are hundreds of other couples just like you across the country who are packing their bags, ready for a chance to repair or rejuvenate their relationship.  To get the most out of a couples retreat, you and your partner need to be very clear about what it is you want to get out of the retreat.

Some couples retreats are tucked away in scenic valleys or overlooking majestic mountains.  The point of these retreats is to offer couples a break from the normal grind of daily life.  They’re more like couples oriented vacations, where there are a lot of activities meant to build intimacy and rejuvenate your marriage.  Some of these retreats have group activities where you’ll meet other couples.  Usually there is a theme, like a tropical island or a rustic retreat.

You’ll find a variety of different activities to choose from when you go, so be sure that you bring the right clothing and are prepared to venture outside your comfort zone.  You might be swimming with dolphins, hiking up steep cliffs, or exploring the deep forest at your retreat.  Bring your adventurous side, and you’ll have fun.

If you are going on a couples retreat because you want to repair your relationship with your spouse, then you’ll do less vacation and more therapy with a professional, certified therapist in a private setting.  These types of retreats are more vigorous, and you’ll be talking about your marital problems at length.  The reason for the retreat is so that you can relax and not worry about being judged or having to deal with the problems of the outside world.  You can simply focus on your relationship.

Whether or not you are going to fix a relationship or just to have fun, knowing the reason why you want to go on a couples retreat will make it that much better!

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Are you looking to spice up your relationship? Many couples encounter stagnant phases where their relationship turns from romantic into boring. This article will cover what activities and actions can help you fall back in love and spice up your relationship!

Dear Ryan – My relationship is so boring I’m falling asleep.  Help!

Anyone who is looking to add a bit of “fun” and “spunk” to their relationship needs to realize one thing: You must be open if you want to spice up your relationship.  If you stick to the same boring things you used to do, you’ll get the same result every single time.  Relationships are supposed to have a spark of spontaneity to them.

You won’t find new ways to spend time together if you aren’t willing to be open to the possibilities around you. Start by creating a list with your partner of all of the different things that you would like to do together.  Just brainstorm.  Remember, there are no stupid ideas during brainstorms.  If you think that going to a Star Trek convention might be fun, just write it down.  It doesn’t have to turn into reality.

Then choose one to do. These activities can include things such as white water rafting, couples massage, joining a club or group together, attending an event or a concert together, etc. These could involve the bedroom as well. Trying a new sex position or incorporating toys into your bedroom could spice things up. It doesn’t matter what you want to do as long as it’s new.

Remember this formula: New = exciting.

I’ve seen dozens of couples fall out of love with one another simply because they were bored! This is one of the worst ways to end a relationship because both people still care deeply for one another but just aren’t sure what to do to rekindle their love. They aren’t sure how to make their relationship exciting.

When looking to spice up your relationship, just remember that it’s important to be open and to try things that both of you are interested in. At the same time, be willing to explore what your partner suggests, and vice versa. It’s important that you are taking risks and exploring opportunities together.  Half the fun is that you have someone to explore with.

These kind of actions will only strengthen your bond together and help to add excitement to your life. Usually it isn’t the relationship that is stale but it’s the actual individual lives that are. Spice up your life by doing something new with your partner and watch what it does for your love life!

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Relationship issues are difficult to deal with. They can ruin your life if left untreated. One of the cornerstones of happiness is the state of one’s relationships. Take care of yours. 

Relationship Issues
Cognitive behavioral therapy is one of the best ways to solve relationship issues.

I want to encourage you to solve your relationship issues by using cognitive behavior therapy, also known as CBT. CBT offers ways to understand your relationship issues and find solutions for them.

What CBT is about? It doesn’t sound like something that could actually help my relationship issues. I understand that you may feel hesitant to enter therapy to deal with your relationship issues, but it really is one of the best ways to clearly identify the problems and resolve them. You are always free to leave whenever you like, but I promise – it will do wonders for your personal life.

So what is CBT about? It’s about changing your thinking patterns into something more positive. You can fix your relationship issues by starting with your mind. It helps you to change the way that you respond to different things, building more awareness about the various associations that you have. It helps you find new ways of thinking about your problems that make you both happier and stronger.

Different people often respond in different ways to the same events. This is where CBT is helpful. It looks at the individual reasons for your responses. You are not factored into a formula, but instead addresses as an individual.

In your relationship, you may be responding to things negatively. You need to find ways to respond positively. CBT can help you determine why you are responding negatively and how you might respond positively. Other people who are going through similar things may respond to a situation with humor or consider it an avenue for personal growth. This is what CBT is all about. CBT is about finding the most healthy and most powerful ways to think about events in your life that previously you may have responded to negatively.CBT helps you to analyze your life and accept your surroundings, your behavior and your actions. It helps you to work with these three facets and discover hidden positives.

It is important to note, however, that CBT is not a method that you can administer on your own. It requires a trained professional to spend time with you, helping you to work through your thoughts and process your emotions. Because CBT looks at your thought patterns, it is difficult for you to do alone. You cannot adequately address your own thought patterns and see your thoughts objectively. Find a therapist who you feel comfortable with and are able to share your intimate thoughts. Together, you will be able to work through the issues surrounding your relationship and your life.

At the end of therapy, you’ll see yourself as more of an optimistic person who can positively frame events in his or her life.  You’ll also notice that your relationship issues are fading away. By working to better understand your patterns of thinking, you’ll grow as an individual and create better relationships in the future. Just because you’ve lived with various patterns of thinking doesn’t mean that you must continue living with them. Find a therapist today who specializes in cognitive behavioral treatment (CBT), put in the hard work, and watch as your life begins to reflect a happier you!

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Being able to get your wife in the mood is central to having a happy marriage.

One principle that I believe will really help to get your wife in the mood is the principle of touching as physical intimacy.  Getting your wife in the mood involves building up intimacy and desire, and touching is the most effective way to do this.

Getting your wife in the mood requires good foreplay.  You have to build up to it.  One thing I do to get my woman in the mood is to spend lots of time cuddling.  You simply lie next to your mate, and lightly feel each other’s skin.  Women respond to tactile stimulation even more so than men.  That’s why this method works.

You may have the best techniques in the world for turning a woman on, for giving her an orgasm and for somehow being a sexual hero, but you may not be able to get your wife to budge on saying “yes” to sex.

What works more than pretty anything else is having a lot of physical connection, touching, and closeness in your relationship. A key to get your wife in the mood is building that connection.

So I encourage you to spend more time touching your wife.  Give more hugs, hold her hand more often, kiss her more, or engage in more foreplay. Get your wife in the mood through building more tension.

You’ll find that the more you’re touching here and there, the more of a physical bond there is.  And you know what that means.  It means you’re going to have more sex. You can get your wife in the mood if you create the most powerful physical intimacy.

In order for her to want you she has to feel comfortable around you, and that there is a connection.  Some women are more in tune with their animal selves than others, but technique is a surefire way to spend more time in the bedroom.

Think back to when you first started dating.  A lot of times we just touch our partner without thinking about it.  When our relationship was just getting started, physical intimacy came naturally.

Maybe you want sex but maybe you’re not good and sharing physical contact and getting her warmed-up.

Perhaps you’re just not good enough at non-sexual touch because women need to have a lot of confidence and support and intimacy in relationships and one of the best sources of these feelings and emotions is being touched.

So I highly recommend going back to the drawing board and analyzing the amount of physical contact you have in your relationship. To get your wife in the mood is to enjoy your relationship.

Look to seriously ramp up how close you are physically and get her to feel comfortable and warm and trustworthy in your eyes.

You’ll find there’ll be a very close connection between the amount of touching in your relationship and the amount of sex you’re having.

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When searching through various relationship retreat options, do you find yourself asking “Is it worth it?”

Relationship retreats are usually a good idea.  I’m not saying this because I am being paid by one to advertise.  No, in fact, I have actually been to one when my relationship was really on the rocks, and it set us on the right course.  If you know how to choose the right relationship retreat, then you can enjoy a wonderful relationship yourself.

All relationship retreats are not created equal.  You want to go on a retreat where you can truly cut off the rest of the world.  This is so important if we’re experiencing rockiness in our relationship.  Part of the allure of a relationship retreat is that it’s like being in another world.  It makes it easier to psychologically segregate the problems from our old lives so they don’t spill out into the retreat.  I find it harder to fix old behavior patterns if we’re still in our old environment.

Try and pick a retreat that’s in a scenic spot.  The one my girlfriend and I went to was in the Rockies where we were greeted with a spectacular view of the mountains every morning.  Some people might prefer a tropical island where they can swim with dolphins, or maybe a starlit forest is more to your taste?  Do not do relationship retreats in cities or in a spot that’s not peaceful and relaxing.

Most relationship retreats will offer some form of couples therapy, whether it be group therapy or one on one with a professional counselor.  One of the biggest red flags that you can look out for is if there is not professional counselor with a degree.  If you want help for your relationship and things are really looking bleak, do not bother with the place if you are not going to talk to a counselor with a degree from an accredited university.

What makes relationship retreats great is that you can meet other couples and get out of your little social bubble.  All too often I see couples who are doing well, but their social life collapses because they spend a little too much time with their significant other, and not enough time forging relationships with other people outside their marriage.  This is so important, because it keeps our main relationship healthier when we are more rounded as people.  Also, one good way to keep the stress off a relationship is having someone to talk about your problems with in an informal, non judgmental setting.

Simply put, they work. Rekindle your relationship at a relationship retreat. 

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Love and poetry go hand in hand.  When we are in the midst of a wonderful relationship, everything just seems better.  The air smells fresher, food tastes better, and we have a sense of inner peace.  Enjoy these inspirational relationship quotes, and see if the joy these people have experienced is similar to yours.

Take some time off and enjoy these inspirational relationship quotes

“Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.”
― Rumi

“How can something as fragile as a word build the whole world?”
―Franny Billingsley, Chime

Love me when I least deserve it, because that is when I really need it.

– Swedish Proverb

Love one another but make not a bond of love.
Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.
– Khalil Gibran

Love does not claim possession, but gives freedom.
– Rabindranath Tagore

Who, being loved, is poor?
– Oscar Wilde

Where There is Love, Nothing is Missing.
– Jonathan Lockwood Huie

Marriage, ultimately, is the practice of becoming passionate friends.
– Harville Hendrix

Love is saying “I feel differently,” instead of “You’re wrong.”
– Anonymous

Friendship often leads to love, but lust seldom leads to friendship.
– Jonathan Lockwood Huie

Love that does not renew itself every day becomes a habit and in turn a slavery.
– Khalil Gibran

I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you.
I love you not only for what you have made of yourself, but for what you are making of me.
I love you for that part of me you bring out.
– Roy Croft

True love has no limits.
– Anonymous

If I never met you, I wouldn’t like you.
If I didn’t like you, I wouldn’t love you.
If I didn’t love you, I wouldn’t miss you.
But I did, I do, and I will.
– Anonymous

Love is not a mere sentiment.
Love is the ultimate truth at the heart of creation.
– Rabindranath Tagore

You are my ground and you are my rainbow.
You are my butterfly and you are my ecstasy.
You are the start of my journeys and always my destination.
You are my home – the place to which I always return.
– Jonathan Lockwood Huie

I hope that you enjoyed these relationship quotes.

They make me smile and I’m sure they made you smile as well. Perhaps one of these relationship quotes gave you an idea to rekindle the passion within your own relationship. If you still need more practical advice then read some of the other articles on this site. They are specifically tailored to different problems.

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Have you ever wanted to buy fresh flowers for your girlfriend? Many boyfriends have considered buying fresh flowers for their girlfriends but they think that it’s just too cliche or sappy.  Will your girlfriend even like it?

Fresh Flowers For Your Girlfriend?

It depends on how romantic your girlfriend is, but most girlfriends love it when you buy fresh flowers for them, because it is a really romantic gesture and shows that you care.

Fresh flowers symbolize the love in your relationship. It is a representation of how you feel towards one another.

If you are worried about being original, then try to find unique flowers that reflect  your girlfriend’s personality.  Don’t just buy roses.  You could get chrysanthemums, forget-me-nots, or daisies, depending on what you think of your girlfriend.  Giving fresh flowers to  your girlfriend can be a unique gift idea.

Paying attention to the kind of flower is one way to show your girlfriend the level of your commitment. It shows that you listen to her and care about what she has to say. This is really important to women and the gift will mean so much more if it shows that you took your time and put considerable thought into choosing the flowers.

Flowers are a good way to apologize if you and your girlfriend have been fighting.  It’s also a great romantic gift if you do it spontaneously.  For instance, you can have the flowers delivered to her job or put them in a special place where she will definitely find them.

It’s best to give fresh flowers when everything is fine in the relationship. Then the flowers are a random act of love instead of a planned forgiveness attempt.

Let your flowers speak to your woman’s heart by representing your feelings for her.  Be sure to show your individuality and let the gift speak for itself.

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Here are three tips you can use to save a marriage.  They are tested and have been known to work.  Just do them!

The first tip is to do as many couples exercises as possible. Just tips to save a marriage won’t have as much impact as actual exercises.  You have to be proactive in saving your marriage.  You cannot sit back and wait for life to make decisions for you.

There’s a lot out there that can really help you for your relationship. These are better than tips to save a marriage because exercises are like fun little challenges you complete together.  My website is really a great start to get a new handle on your relationship and see all the possibilities for yourself.

With a couple’s exercise it is something you can together. It can be in the form of an assessment to more of a homework form, physical exercises and questions. You want something that you can actively do together. This is what causes growth in a relationship.

What do these exercises actually do?

These exercises function as a kind of communication tool and are a good way to add a bit of “fun” to this process. These exercises and tips to save a marriage could really push you outside your comfort zone – this is why they work.

Think of it as a board game. When I was younger, I loved playing Monopoly and Stratego. Consider these exercises as ways to create a fun game with your partner while working on your relationship. You’ll be amazed at your new growth.

Secondly, you want to have a really good strategy for dealing with conflict and stress because when you’ve got problems in your life, you need to have a system and strategy for dealing with them that is effective. You don’t want stress to ruin your relationship.

Use humor to try and combat negative emotions.  Laughter is the best cure for a negative mood and its useful to snap yourself out of an argumentative state. Perhaps you need to have a time out. Some couples have a word that they use when things are beginning to reach a nasty place. Then when the word is said, they leave and go into different rooms. Then later, after they have both calmed down, they come back together and talk things through rationally.

The third principle is to be extremely positive about your marriage. Any tips to save a marriage need to be based on the idea that you can have the best marriage imaginable.

You need to feel very optimistic about your relationship. Think of all of the wonderful things that you love about your partner.

For the time being, focus on your strengths. Look at the things both of you do well. Look at the really good parts of your marriage and look to increase the magnitude of this and to really strengthen your strengths.

From these, you’ll be able to get the energy and the resources to resolve and address the weaknesses as well.

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