How to Make Up With Your Wife

This happens in EVERY relationship, but it’s important to know how to work through hurt feelings…

We’ve all made mistakes in our personal lives and that includes our romantic relationships. Sometimes we may take things too far and cause our partners considerable stress. What do you do when you’ve hurt your woman’s feelings? Is there a way that you can return things to the way they were before?

First off you have to respect your feelings and you have to understand the fact that there is a process.  Emotions are like a rail car.  They get started and its hard to stop them suddenly.  However the process itself is valuable and it’s well worth going through.  This, however, depends on your willingness to let yourself feel the full range of emotions.  Do not suppress how you feel!  Do not think that just pretending everything is all right is going to help you!

It all depends on your relationship and connection together. If you have a strong relationship then it will be much easier for you to talk through things and trust one another in the future. It also depends on what you’ve done. For those of you who have cheated, that’s a much bigger issue than simply saying something hurtful.

Sometimes men say things that are hurtful for a variety of reasons. If you’ve been verbally abusive at all, then you must apologize. These are usually the things that hurt women the most. If you’ve said something that has hurt her deeply then you need to apologize.  It’s not un-manly to admit you’re wrong.  If you care about your relationship, then you’ll do it.

After you apologize, you need to talk things through with her. Communication is of the utmost importance here in terms of restoring your relationship. Don’t let her feel alone and don’t let her feel as though you don’t care about her feelings. Show her that you care by being there for her and listening. Understand what you said that hurt her and why it hurt her.

Once you know what you’ve said and why it hurt her, you can explain to her why you said it. Maybe you were taking out your anger on her because of something that happened at work. Perhaps you over-reacted in a heated argument the two of you were having. Maybe you didn’t even mean to say what you said and you don’t actually agree with what you said. It doesn’t matter what it is. Apologize for having said it and let her know why.

Talking through the hurt, though you may need to give her a bit of space first, is the best way to restore your relationship.

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Top 10 Things to Do to Make Up With Your Wife1.     Respect Her

This is the key to any successful marriage. Simple tasks like making the bed, doing the dishes, taking out the trash, and putting your clothes in the hamper are easy things that really make a difference to her. This shows that you respect her and are willing to help her out around the house.

2.     Compliment Her

A simple compliment can go a long way, especially since every woman just wants to feel valued and loved. You should aim for 3 compliments to every one critique. This will create a more positive environment for everyone involved. For example if she buys something for herself ask to see it, or even for her to model it for you. This interest will show her that you still care when she tries to impress you or dress nice for you. You can even compliment her on how great the house looks or how great the meal tastes.

3.     Buy her flowers just because its Tuesday

To make up with your wife try buying her flowers. Pick some random day of the week and pick out some flowers for her and leave a little note saying how much you appreciate her and love her. She will love you and your gesture.

4.     Splurge a little

Spoil her. Take her out to eat on a dinner date or a lunch date. She will enjoy going out and being in your company. She will also take pride in the fact that you are willing to splurge a little on her, showing her that she’s worth it.

5.     Be patient and calm

Nobody likes to be yelled at and yelling is not a good way to make up with your wife. She can still hear you without yelling and chances are she will respond a whole lot better if you talk in a nice, quiet volume that’s non-threatening.

6.     Smile and Stare

We’ve all heard that actions are louder than words, so take the time to just smile. You don’t have to say anything.

7.     Tell her you love her

Tell her that you love her and tell her often. Also, try making a habit of kissing her goodbye every time one of you leaves the house. It’s a cute habit that both of you will enjoy.

8.     Listen

Anytime your wife has a problem take the time to sit down and listen. Turn off the TV, put away the cell phone and show her that you are her number one priority. Do NOT put her down and make fun of her mistakes because everyone makes them. Sympathize and show that you will support her no matter what.

9.     Do something thoughtful to make up

Plan a whole night just about her. Start out by make her favorite meal. You could also give her flowers, and maybe even rent her favorite movie and just spend the night cuddling on the couch.

 10.  Apologize

A sincere apology will go a long way, especially after those first 9 things. A simple “I’m sorry” will begin the process of making it up to her and showing her that you are man enough to swallow your pride and admit that you were wrong.

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Question: I want to win back my wife. We’ve been really distant lately and I want her to know that she’s still the person I want to be with. I just worry that she won’t listen. I worry that I’ve lost her. I’m pretty stubborn and I don’t know what to say, I have a hard time saying anything. What should I do?

Answer: When you are looking at finding ways to “win back my wife,” I want you to consider what you haven’t been doing.

Have you been complimenting her? I don’t mean fake compliments. I mean real, honest, genuine compliments. Find something compelling to say and say it. It will make her feel good and remind her that you’re still there. You still find her attractive and you still love all of her idiosyncrasies as well as her personality.

Another thing that I would ask you to look at, is the time you spend together. This is crucial. You may need to spend more time with her. Maybe you’re always off doing your own thing or you’re involved in a lot of outside activities. Find a way to make her feel special. Find a way to make her feel loved.

However, you may be spending too much time with her. Have you given her space to breathe? To pursue her own interests? It’s important that you allow her to do her own thing as well. It’s good for couples to have some activities that they do on their own. It’s healthy for you to spend time apart as well as together. Don’t suffocate her or she will be less likely to stay.

Regardless of what choices you need to make and what behaviors you need to alter, it’s important that you do so with her in mind. Listen to what she’s asking for and give it to her.

If you want to turn your wife on, you need to be able to influence her mind.

You see, women can be turned on like men, but it’s different.  Women need more time to get revved up and it takes a good amount of time before they are really in the mood and ready to go, whereas a man can really just be turned on like a light bulb.  If you want to really turn your wife on, then you’re going to have to learn to push her buttons well before you get into the bedroom.

First off, you need to be confident and manly as a normal part of your life.  It needs to be ingrained in who you are.  Women respond to prolonged attraction.  Sex to them is like a steady crescendo that starts early in the day and comes out later.  Always remember to be assertive and confident during the day, and keep yourself in good physical shape.

Now, what do you do to turn your wife on?  Women want to submit to their man.  When you talk to women, they will tell you that their most intense sexual experiences occur when they really submit to their husband in bed.  That’s why you have to be confident and aggressive.  Do not be afraid to act impulsively on your emotions: you’ll find she responds a lot better than boring, predictability.

Surprise her!  Try to do something romantic during the day that she doesn’t predict.  Always tease her.  One thing a friend of mine did was pop into the shower with his wife.  It startled her for a bit.  She was shocked that he was so impulsive.  But then, he left the shower and walked back downstairs.  You build attraction by doing surprising stuff and then teasing her.

Another tip to turn your wife on is to focus a lot on your physical health.  A lot of times when we’re married, we don’t feel we have to look as good as they day we married.  Actually, you should look better.  After all, you’re the source for your wife’s sexuality, so you don’t want her to get frustrated and start getting the wandering eye.

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You need to know how to stop divorce, and you need to know it now!  I can understand what it’s like being in full panic mode, and here are some tips you can use RIGHT NOW to stop divorce.

When a marriage is on the brink of divorce, we feel like we’re in a house of cards that’s collapsing all around us without any help in sight.  It’s all too easy to go straight into panic mode when you think your spouse is about to leave you a Dear John letter.  Don’t sit there and do nothing!  Your partner needs to know that you value the marriage to the point that you’d do anything to save it.  This is so important right now, that I want you to reread the last statement until it gets into  your soul.

Take a break from work, the kids, in laws, and everything else that you feel is an encumbrance on your marriage, and whisk yourself and your spouse away.  So often I see couples on the brink of divorce because of financial problems, family problems, illness, and other outside influences.  You cannot expect to repair and heal your relationship in a state of panic.  You might not have much money, but try to remove yourself from your old environment to see your relationship with fresh eyes.

Once you do, it’s time to take a deep breath.  You’ve done a lot to help yourself already.  Most people don’t make it this far.  What you need to do now is to be brutally honest with yourself and air out all of your grievances with your wife.  Whether it’s finances, or adultery, or any problem that you have in your relationship, you need to air your dirty laundry.  Silence is a relationship killer.  You’re essentially saying you don’t trust your partner with your thoughts or emotions.  That’s no way to stop divorce.

If you do have the money, I heartily recommend going on a marriage retreat.  Whisk yourself away to the mountains of Wyoming or touch dolphins in California.  You have to do whatever it takes at this point.  These retreats are great because you can sit down with a licensed therapist who can help you with your problems in a relaxed, stress free setting.  Do not wait to get this done, because the longer you procrastinate, the more likely you will not be able to stop your divorce.

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Seeing marriage problems signs early is very important.Seeing marriage problems signs?

What do we need to watch out for if we think we’re seeing signs of marriage problems?  We might think our marriage is going just fine, but are there special signs we should keep an eye on so that we can predict a problem before it becomes too much to handle?  There are, and if you’re knowledgeable, you can save your marriage before it’s too late!

First off, how often do you and your spouse make love?  Physical intimacy is the bedrock for many marriages.  Without it, your marriage devolves into simply a great friendship, and for many people, that’s just not enough.  If you feel your love life has taken a turn for the worse, it’s time to head off the problem and do something spontaneous and romantic.  Make sure that it breaks your normal routine and that your spouse is genuinely surprised.  Nothing builds romance and passion like uncertainty and spontaneity.

Another marriage problem sign you need to watch out for is if your spouse seems distant or aloof when they had been interested and engaged before.  This can be a surefire sign of marriage boredom, and if left to fester, can turn into strife later.  Marriage is supposed to build both people within the relationship and can offer ways for both people to grow and experience life in ways they couldn’t as individuals.  If your relationship isn’t accomplishing this, boredom can set in, and so can the wandering eye.

Does your spouse avoid you?  This might be, in fact, unthinkable for a couple.  However, when the glow of being newlyweds fades, have you fallen into the rut of monotony?  Do you feel that you do not need to do anything special for your mate now that you are married?  If you don’t show your partner that you value your relationship with them, they may feel slighted and distant.  They may find that staying at work extra hours or going out with their friends may be preferable to being home with you.

This might sound harsh, but relationships are ongoing and require a lot of work.  Your partner entered the marriage with you out of love, respect, passion, and because they though their life would be enhanced.  You most likely did for the same reasons, or more.  You cannot just rest on your laurels after you say “I do.”  It’s time to make the most of your relationship with your partner and to cherish them.

Do activities you know your partner loves, or talk about subjects they like to talk about.  Let them know you value your time together, and your marriage will take on a new character.  Change your home décor and buy a new car.  Go to a movie you would never otherwise go to or take up a new sport.  Take your spouse out to an art festival or to samba dancing.  There’s a world of new activities.

There are more signs of a strained marriage, but if you notice that your spouse is avoiding you, or you are having fewer and fewer chances to have intimate relations, or if you feel like your partner is just plain bored, there are ways to head off these problems so that you don’t find yourself in a psychologist’s office, wondering why you have to now have marriage counseling.

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I want to talk about when you’ve got a marriage on the rocks.How to save a marriage

Depression plays a major part of this. A marriage on the rocks is usually a sign of mental health issues from one of the people.

Fixing a marriage on the rocks is often not just about the relationship.

When couples are having relationship problems mental health issues this can really impact the relationship in a major way. Dealing with a marriage on the rocks is about not sweeping this under the carpet.

Depression is an epidemic, it can affect everything around your confidence, to your energy levels, to your emotions, to the way you see the world and when you’re depressed reality shifted. A marriage on the rocks might be a sign this is a problem.

There’s this thing people experience called cognitive distortions which mean when you see something often the depressed person gets an unrealistic image.

In a way reality is walked in their mind, and the truth is distorted, so often relationship problems are caused by one partner experiencing some trauma or maybe having some mental challenges and issues that aren’t resolve and aren’t fixed.

When you’re in a relationship a lot of your happiness and a lot of your own peace is tied to the quality of the relationship and that is often very closely related to your partner’s mental health. Dealing with marriage on the rocks you’ve got to be open to what might be the causes.

What’s really critical is that can you develop our communication strategy in your relationship, where you both feel very comfortable offering feedback, suggestions and being one team when it comes to getting health, support and dealing with problems. Having a marriage on the rocks is a must-fix scenario no matter what you need to do.

One of the biggest problems that occur in marriages is when you stop becoming one team, when for example, one partner suggest there may be a problem and the other partner resists getting treatment or doing something about it. Fixing a marriage on the rocks is a two people affair.

That’s usually what causes marriage breakdown and also it’s relationship problems is when both people are no longer on the same page, they’re not on the same path, and they’re not really aiming to work together on this together. A marriage on the rocks can be fixed you’ve just got to get both people in on it.

So if you feel like your relationship may be dealing with depression in you or your partners, it’s very important that you communicate about this, you talk about it and you work hard together to resolve it. A marriage on the rocks need to be highly analyzed for the problems.

Many relationship problems are just symptoms of some deeper issues, they’re just very superficial signs about things are wrong kind of a much deep level.

So what I encourage you to do is to really make a very strong consistent effort to make sure that you’re both very happy, healthy and your head is in the right place as well as that, that you’re both working as one team.

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Think about making up with your ex and what that would really mean for you…

It seems almost impossible to get an ex back . After all, you broke up for a reason and it’s hard to forget all of the negative feelings and hurt that led to the break up.  Never fear though, if you really want your ex back, then there are plenty of things you can do to get back on track.

The better the quality of your life, the less a break up is going to affect you.  In turn, that means the less what your ex does or doesn’t do is going to bother you. Being obsessed about making up with your ex is usually a sign that your life isn’t going so well right now.  You might need to think about something else.

But on the same token if your life isn’t going somewhere right now, if you’re financially stressed, if you’re overweight, if things aren’t falling into place for you, you going to care a hell lot more about your exes, break ups are going to affect you hell lot more.

So in my experience, caring a lot about, or trying to get an ex back has more to do with getting your life back on track than anything else. You might be only focused on making up with your ex but perhaps your life needs some serious attention as well.

It’s probably expected that you’re falling off the wagon a little bit with taking action on your dreams and your goals.

So how can you get your life back on track?  How do you turn a new page?

You must be focused, start to get more results, and start taking more actions because if you want to make up with your ex, what you’re going to do is become more attractive, you got to be sexier, and you’ve got to be a lot more desirable, you’ve got to be through the roof attractive.

Making up with your ex often has to do with you and your life, not just what you do with her. Part of making up with your ex is demonstrating that you are really going somewhere and things are good. You won’t stand much of a chance of making up with your ex if your life totally sucks let’s be honest.

And generally it’s the people who have that life totally on track have a clear direction are ambitious, are heading towards that are making things happen that are going to be more attractive.

So the number one thing you can do is focus on a 30-day goal.  Set up a plan for yourself!

Think about an area of your life you want to improve and think about a 30-day goal that would make a huge difference to your goals, so a 30-day goal that could change things completely for you.

They might give you a bit of a breakthrough, maybe it’s exercising, the next 30-days you decide to exercise once a day or perhaps it’s just social confidence and you decide talk to two new people a day for 30 days but I want to encourage you to have a 30-day focus, something you can focus on, push yourself, and offers you a whole range of benefits in growing yourself in becoming more attractive.

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Find out how to win your wife back by focusing on what will help you the most.How To Win Your Wife Back

What I want to do right now is give you a bit of a heads up on process of getting your ex back.

I want to focus on stuff that’s really important at the beginning that gives you the best chance of getting her back and also making use of any information that gives you specifics on what to do. Establish how to win your wife back by identifying what will make you feel great.

Feeling great is the most important thing for you right now. Far more important than any desperate-types of action to fix your relationship.

One of the things that makes a difference between a guy who can very easily take action on getting her back and make it happen and have a good chance of success and a guy that can’t is something called emotional healing.

What emotional healing is talking about is how you can deal with emotional trauma. Dig out how to win your wife back by recovering from any pain you are currently suffering from.

A breakup is often much like a physical injury. If you want a clue how to win your wife back you’ve got to get on an emotional level with yourself.

The problem with having emotion issues is that you’ll carry them into your marriage and it’s like emotional baggage – it really doesn’t help at all. Learn how to win your wife back by moving on permanently from any pain you’ve experienced.

You’ve probably had a physical injury in your life, maybe a broken arm or some sort of wound.

When I was younger I had some pretty bad burns from boiling water and we are quite good at understanding what we need to do with these physical wounds.

We need to either go to the hospital, go to the emergency and do we need to treat them with a bandage, get them looked at. Obvious right. So is knowing how to win your wife back.

Then there is a period of recovery and if we break our ankle we understand that we can’t just go and play football the next day.

Sometimes with us guys we can be a little unaware of the actual true impact of emotional wounds and how we can deal with them. A breakup, divorce or marriage difficulties are going to scar you and mess up your mental focus.

So I want to give you three things you can do to speed up that emotional healing process from significant emotional wounds. That’s the shortcut to how to win your wife back.

The first thing you can do is you’ve got to talk about it to people.

The first step really in dealing with an emotional wound and healing and being able to talk about what happened. Determine how to win your wife back by not trying to go it alone.

Especially talk about it with people you can be absolutely honest with.

The next thing you can do is get more experience with healing wounds.

So look at any issues from your childhood or any other bad experiences you’ve had and get some practice in healing these wounds by fixing those things. Knowing how to win your wife back is not usually just about your marriage.

The better you are at that, the better you will be with dealing with this latest emotional wound.

They found that people who have suffered trauma in their childhoods are much more sensitive to trauma later on in their life. If they have to deal with haven’t dealt with these original injuries. Knowing how to win your wife back may require a larger approach than you think.

The third thing you can do is to get good at boosting up your life when you need it.

Sometimes when you do the difficult period you need to increase the amount of exercise you’re doing, the amount of socializing the amount of time you’re spending on your hobbies. Feeling great is the key to how to win your wife back.

Sometimes when we’re dealing with an emotional wound or injury it’s really important that we offset this by vamping up our activities in areas of our life.

When you get some specific information on how to get your ex back this is can be a hell of a lot more effective if you’ve recovered emotionally from this trauma. Master how to win your wife back by focusing on yourself first.

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Wanting to know how to have sex with my wife could be the ticket for you to really develop your own sexual power to a really high level.

One thing that I encourage you to do from this point forward is to explore your sexuality with your wife.

Knowing how to have sex with my wife is a journey of exploration and discovery.How to make love with my wife

You’d be amazed that how open women generally are to things of a sexual nature and even to learning about sex. Learning how to have sex with my wife can often be about doing this journey together. Don’t assume that she won’t be interested.

Sex is one of the greatest pleasures of life. We have been made so that sex is very fun for us and is central to most of our desires and behaviors. Mastering how to have sex with my wife is essential because it is how we are built.

So I highly recommend if you can to maybe get a DVD or two that explains different approaches to sex, maybe has some suggestions for multiple orgasms or Tantric sex, or maybe you have to try a lot of new positions.

Consider watching this with your wife; be amazed of how much this can turn both of you on, giving you suggestions to try and what freshen up your sex life.

Discovering how to have sex with my wife is something you can both do together through investing in the sexuality of your relationship.

I highly recommend not only learning about sex continually and getting your understanding and boosting your wisdom and knowledge but also doing this process together as a couple. Decide how to have sex with my wife by becoming more intimate with her and by boosting your education and passion for sex.

A lot of husbands can be in the habit of looking at porn or looking at things of a sexual nature away from their wives. Not with them. This is not the way to learn how to have sex with my wife. It’s by doing these things with your wife.

I highly recommend making your wife part of this journey so you can do it together. Finding out how to have sex with my wife can be a team activity with the two of you to do together and will usually increase the enjoyment and success of this idea.

You can learn together, grow together and experience new things together. If you want to learn how to have sex with my wife then be open and honest about how you are currently feeling and bring it into the open. Don’t be afraid or scared. Be accepting of your current situation. And then improve it.

Imagine how receptive women are to this kind of things and how much fun it could make your sex life, not only does it act at the top of foreplay which gets you both with your sexual energy rising through the roof but also keeps your sex life interesting and not routine.

Also, you can use a technique to get into a frame of mind like when you first met. Love that blissful state of mind when you’re in the honeymoon phase of your relationship? After awhile though, your feelings and emotions change. But what if there was a way to get those initial sensual feelings and keep them for good? Watch my FREE video presentation to see how…CLICK HERE to check out the video while you still can…