Lasting Relationships

Sometimes men wonder whether they should be chivalrous or not. Within the American culture, bad boys are often the ones who get the girl. It isn’t the good guy even though he is the obvious best choice. Why is that? You may be wondering, well, should I be chivalrous?

In the end, it always pays to be chivalrous. You do have to strike a balance.  You don’t want to be a door mat, but treating a woman like an inanimate object will get you nowhere fast.  It is true that women may look for a bad boy sometimes, they never end up with the bad boy. Besides, bad boys are allowed to be chivalrous. That’s the best combination. You can still be rough around the edges, live life on the wild side, and remain a chivalrous man.

What does chivalry entail?

Hmm….Well, it’s the classic southern mannerisms. The “Yes, ma’am” “Yes, sir” to those who are much older than you are or in positions of great authority. Opening the door for every woman. Paying for the women’s meal on dates.  Chivalry is actually about being noble, about caring for those around you and accepting your place in society.  It goes all the way back to the knights of Europe.  Knights held a special station in society, and it warranted that they knew special mannerisms.

The only word of caution is your level of chivalry. Sometimes men take chivalry to a point where they are actually asking the woman to be completely dependent on them. In today’s society, many women now value their independence and will feel insulted if you act like they are fragile.  Plus, don’t fawn over your date.  She’s a person and she wants to be treated like one.

The key is to do every action out of love and out of respect. You don’t need to hold her hand and escort her into the diner, that suggests she can’t get in by herself. However, opening her door for her, suggests kindness and respect. It’s all in the details. Make sure that you don’t dampen her sense of independence.

Chivalry is not dead. Use it to your advantage. She may not actually be expecting you to be chivalrous in the first place, as many men are not.  Women may not ask for it, but they love it when their man is chivalrous. If you watch the way women swoon over men who practice it, you’ll see what all of the fuss is about. It will greatly influence the kind of women you attract. Try it out and you’ll see what I mean.

So should I be chivalrous? Yes, absolutely.

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If you know the secret to making your girlfriend feel wanted, you’ll both be happier…

 

When your relationship is going well, don’t wait for something to go bad or think that things will continue that way forever.  You should do a “relationship tune-up” which is what I recommend to help in making your girlfriend feel wanted.  Relationship tune-ups are necessary to keep the vitality and life in our relationships.  Without it, we slip into stagnation.

Surprise your girlfriend!   I don’t mean for you to be a stalker, of course, but you do need to add some spontaneity to your relationship.  If she gets bored, then the flame and passion of your relationship quickly fades into oblivion.  Being unpredictable makes her think about you even when you’re not there, which makes her crave you.  But, if you’re not a particularly spontaneous guy, what are you to do?

One thing I always say is that you should breakup your routine.  I realize some people are creatures of habit.  You like routine and you like the safety that normalcy bring you. That’s perfectly fine, we’ll start off with baby steps.  How about seeing your girlfriend where she would never expect you?  Sometimes I would dress up and roleplay with her while I knew she was at her favorite cafe.  I’d pretend to be a high rolling casino mogul, and she was the young girl who caught my eye.

You can have fun with this idea!  Relationships are supposed to be about having fun, so the more enjoyment you can inject, the more your girlfriend will feel wanted. The other “relationship tune-up” I recommend, is leaving little creative thank you notes.  This is vital if you live together.  Try leaving little notes saying “You’re the best” or anything funny that pops into your head.  Try to do it creatively.  Remember, spontaneity is the key here.

Remember, she wants to know that she is THE woman in your life, and that you treasure her as well as yourself.  Leaving little notes, or doing a little roleplay is not out of the question.  Try and get outside your comfort zone.

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Dieting as a couple is a great idea.  Here is our top ten lists of diets to try out with your partner!

Top 10 Diets to go on as a Couple

1. Dukan Diet

The Dukan Diet was created by Pierre Dukan, a French nutritionist.  The diet is very popular in Britain, and you can probably find Dukan Diet cookbooks and blogs all over the net.  The diet is based on returning to the foods that nurtured human civilization since the dawn of time, like vegetables, seafood, and lean proteins, and turning away from processed and sugary foods.

2. The Atkins Diet

The Atkins Diet was all the rage in the United States and has helped thousands of people lose weight and feel better about themselves.  The Atkins Diet is especially good for couples because you both can keep an eye on whether or not you are following the diet.  Atkins is easier because while it cuts out carbohydrates, you can still eat meat and fat to your heart’s content.

3. The HCG Diet

This diet is a bit more harrowing than the first two, which is why it’s good to do it as a couple for moral support.  The HCG diet requires that you take HCG hormones, either as injections or as a pill, which will make your body burn fat.  You cut sugar and fat out of your diet and eat low calorie meals while your body burns off the unwanted pounds.

4.  Weight Watchers

What better way for a couple to bond than counting calories together when making a meal?  Weight Watchers is a popular diet plan and very well known.  With Janet Jackson as their new spokesperson, more and more couples are trying out this diet plan to lose weight so they can look great.

5.   The South Beach Diet

The South Beach Diet is much like the Atkins Diet, but allows for different types of foods that might be necessary for certain people to eat, given their dietary needs.  The South Beach is a great project for couples to take on, as it promises fast results and you’ll actually keep the pounds off.

6.  Jenny Craig

Jenny Craig is great for couples because they have couple’s counseling where you can plan the diet out as a couple.  Jenny Craig makes it easy to count calories and many of the meals can be bought at the local grocery store.  You’ll find that it tastes great to eat healthy, and you can plan some very elegant date nights with Jenny Craig as your chef.

7.  The Sonoma Diet

If you and your significant other like to eat leisurely and finish each meal with a glass of wine, then the Sonoma Diet is perfect for you.  This diet calls for you to eat slowly and savor your food, which is great for romantic conversations.

8.  The Best Life Plan

The Best Life Plan is all about changing your lifestyle, rather than just focusing on calorie counting and choice of food. The Best Life Plan is also about building community, so you’ll be able to meet other couples who are on the same path of weight loss as you.

9.  The Eating Well Diet

The Eating Well Diet is a seven part plan to eating healthy and keeping your weight off.  You’ll learn all about the value of eating nutritious food and how food is supposed to nourish our bodies.

10.  Detox and Cleansing Diets

Detox and Cleansing Diets rely on herbal teas or concoctions to help your body cleans itself of harmful toxins.  These diets are usually fairly intensive and require a lot of discipline, as fasting is a key component.  Having your partner there for you will make these diets that much easier.

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