Marriage Advice

How can I save my marriage today?Save my marriage today!

If you find yourself asking this question then continue reading this article because I’m going to give you THREE principles that will help you to save your marriage today. Well, maybe not necessarily today.  It really depends on how troubled your marriage is, but these three principles will go a long way for you.

First, set some goals for your marriage. Think about the next week, three months, or twelve months. Start envisioning what your marriage will look like at those points in the future.  This will help you take the long view and develop a plan.

Will this really help me to save my marriage today? Yes.

Most people don’t set goals for themselves, even for important things like their own marriage!  Have you thought about where you want your marriage to be, even a week from now?

“So in order to save my marriage today, I need to have a plan?”

Absolutely.  Those that think ahead, win.

Next, I want to encourage you to keep an open mind when looking at your relationship problems. Marriage exists so that both people can grow from it.  Stop thinking just about yourself, and try to look at things from your partner’s perspective.  Are they enjoying the marriage?  Do they feel that they are moving ahead, trying out new things, and going out on all the adventures you two talked about in your most romantic of moments?  If not, start working on that!  Which leads me to my next principle…

Fix your communication skills. If your marriage is in need of saving, then chances are you suffer from having poor communication skills.  Don’t feel bad, a lot of people do. Open up the lines of communication by being honest with yourself and be sincere when you ask your partner questions. Really listen to what he or she says before responding.

Remember throughout this entire process to remember that there are no right answers but the ones that feel good.  Listen to  your heart.  Don’t ignore yourself. You need to become more confident, happier and improve your own quality of life. You directly influence your relationship and all of this “good” in your life will dramatically change your marriage. If you implement these changes, then you won’t need to ask “How do I save my marriage today?” because you’ll be saying “I’m so glad I was able to save my marriage today!”

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If you want to stop divorce now then time is of the essence.  You need a game changer, and you need it NOW.

The way you’ve been thinking about marriage, isn’t working.

Maybe you’re stuck in a rut or maybe you’ve let problems in your marriage reach a boiling point, and now you have absolutely no idea what to do next.  This happens to a lot of couples, and you do not need to let this crisis consume you.  You can empower yourself.  You can stop your divorce now, as of right this second, if you follow some of these tested ideas.

1. Halt any stressful activities and slow down

Stress makes everything worse.  It can make arguments fiercer and it can make hurt feelings unbearable.  If you are leading a stress filled life, you will need to take a few days off to get your head together.  If work is unbearable, take a week off.  If your kids are too much, send them to their aunt’s.  You and your spouse have to be laser focused on each other during this time, or it falls apart.

2. Stop the blame game

One of the biggest reasons couples reach the boiling point of divorce is because they are stuck in a pattern of blaming each other without thinking about what they’re saying.  Yes, this is a harsh indictment of what goes on in a lot of relationships, but I’ve seen it wreck people’s lives.  If you want to stop your divorce now, you cannot sit there and blame your spouse for everything.

Remember, a lot of what strains a relationship is how we choose to react to things.  It’s really about the inner game, what goes on in the mind.  Think about it this way.  If your spouse is angry all the time, do you add to the anger by reacting in a hurt manner?  Do you try to shout them down? Does that strategy ever work?  It couldn’t  possibly work!

3. Work on being a world class communicator

Get a book or take a class if need be.  Dale Carnegie has written several books on the subject and there are of course the world famous Dale Carnegie courses you can take.  You cannot have a communication breakdown now.  This would tear apart the fabric of your marriage.  You must know exactly how to not only say what you want to say, but learn to get into the head of your listener and be sure they understand you the way you want.

Misunderstandings kill relationships.  We end up saying things to satisfy our own ego without really understanding where the other person is coming from.  This is marriage poison, and if you want to stop your divorce now, you need to get on this problem pronto!

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You need to know how to stop divorce, and you need to know it now!  I can understand what it’s like being in full panic mode, and here are some tips you can use RIGHT NOW to stop divorce.

When a marriage is on the brink of divorce, we feel like we’re in a house of cards that’s collapsing all around us without any help in sight.  It’s all too easy to go straight into panic mode when you think your spouse is about to leave you a Dear John letter.  Don’t sit there and do nothing!  Your partner needs to know that you value the marriage to the point that you’d do anything to save it.  This is so important right now, that I want you to reread the last statement until it gets into  your soul.

Take a break from work, the kids, in laws, and everything else that you feel is an encumbrance on your marriage, and whisk yourself and your spouse away.  So often I see couples on the brink of divorce because of financial problems, family problems, illness, and other outside influences.  You cannot expect to repair and heal your relationship in a state of panic.  You might not have much money, but try to remove yourself from your old environment to see your relationship with fresh eyes.

Once you do, it’s time to take a deep breath.  You’ve done a lot to help yourself already.  Most people don’t make it this far.  What you need to do now is to be brutally honest with yourself and air out all of your grievances with your wife.  Whether it’s finances, or adultery, or any problem that you have in your relationship, you need to air your dirty laundry.  Silence is a relationship killer.  You’re essentially saying you don’t trust your partner with your thoughts or emotions.  That’s no way to stop divorce.

If you do have the money, I heartily recommend going on a marriage retreat.  Whisk yourself away to the mountains of Wyoming or touch dolphins in California.  You have to do whatever it takes at this point.  These retreats are great because you can sit down with a licensed therapist who can help you with your problems in a relaxed, stress free setting.  Do not wait to get this done, because the longer you procrastinate, the more likely you will not be able to stop your divorce.

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If you want to turn your husband on, then you need to know in advance what he likes…

Sometimes when we’re married we get stuck in a rut.  It’s natural.  You’ve been with your husband for awhile, and maybe you just don’t have as much time or desire for sex as you did when you were dating.  Don’t worry!  You can put the spark back in your love life once you read these tips to help you turn your husband on.

You probably know what your husband does and does not like in bed by now.  This is part of the reason why you feel in a rut, because you just don’t know how to spice things up and vary up your love life.  That’s fine, it happens.  There’s no need to get on yourself about it.  What you need to do is understand male psychology with respect to sex.  You see, sex is a primal urge, so you’re going to have to get acquainted with the animal side of your husband.

Humans evolved in the plains of Africa.  Men are hunter gatherers.  They seek out prey in the forest, hunt it down, and then bring it back home to the village.  Your husband wants to hunt.  He is aggressive and emotional, but he has learned to control his emotions as he’s become older.  However, as a woman, you can help him let lose his aggression and his need to hunt in the bedroom, and really enhance your sexual experience.

Make him hunt you down.  Don’t make sex mechanical.  Learn to play hard to get and make him work for it.  One thing you could do is wait until you know he’ll be off for the evening.  Set a romantic mood with candles and incense.  Remember, you want to simulate the hunt.  Now, leave rose petals and have him follow you all the way back to the bedroom, where you’ll be waiting in your new sexy outfit.

Lingerie is key.  Men love it because it lets them know that you are in the mood to make love and that you know how to lock into his instincts.  Remember, once a man loses himself to his sex drive, the entire experience will be heightened.  Pick out an outfit that is revealing, but not TOO revealing.  Find something with lots of lace and really shows off the best part of your body.

Don’t jump right to sex.  Be sure to take time to rub his body and build up the sexual tension.  You see, you want him so riled up that he practically rips your clothes off.  You can do this by simply cuddling and holding him until the very last second where he just can’t take it anymore.

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When looking for solutions to stop divorce you need to remain optimistic. Although it’s hard, it’s not impossible.Easy Solutions to Stop Divorce

The name of this article is possibly a bit misleading, as stopping a divorce is rarely if ever easy, but if you are pointed in the right direction it is markedly less difficult.  You want your marriage to stay together and you do not want to go through the life altering process of divorce.  Who would?  There are some steps you can take to protect your relationship, and you can get started right now!

Reinvent your relationship

Right now your relationship is plagued with negative cycles.  You come home tired from work and irritable because your boss hates you and your job is getting worse by the day.  Then your spouse brings up something small and you go off the rails.  You feel like your temper is always a short fuse.  You find yourself arguing about things that may not even matter.  You feel like your entire life is filled with strife.

If this is the case, it’s time to reinvent your life and relationship.  There is no need for things to continue on as they are now.  Change careers, change neighborhoods, change clothes, change whatever needs to be changed so that you can feel satisfied when you look at yourself in the mirror in the morning.  This way, you can look at yourself, and your spouse with entirely new eyes.

Take a break from the everyday

Another way to break the cycle of conflict is to break out of the old mold and go on vacation.  A couples retreat works wonders for many couples who feel they need to hit the reset button on their relationship.  In fact, going on a couples retreat is an easy solution to stop a divorce.  Picture yourself enjoying the view of the Rocky Mountains in Colorado or witnessing the view of a deep blue ocean in Hawaii.  There are many exotic locales you can go to so that you and your spouse forget all of your troubles.

Get serious

One of the simplest things you can do to stop a divorce is to set aside some time with your partner in a quiet setting and talk.  Talk like you’ve never talked before.  Communication breakdown is the greatest contributing factor in divorces.  Think of how many people sit in divorce court, wondering what happened when they just could’ve spoken up much earlier.

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Police pay a visit to a father who shot daughter’s laptop in viral video over Facebook complaint.

That’s the headline on the DailyMail article about Tommy Jordan.  This story will sound unhinged, and it shows you how sometimes parents can go off the rails.

Like any father, Tommy was having trouble managing his relationships. But not with his wife, he was having trouble managing his relationship with his DAUGHTER! (As any father knows: This can be tougher than managing your relationship with your wife.)

After reading this post on his daughter’s Facebook wall, Tommy lost it:

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To my parents,

I’m not your damn slave. It’s not my responsibility to clean up your s**t. We have a cleaning lady for a reason. Her name is Linda, not Hannah.

If you want coffee, get off your ass and get it yourself. If you want a garden, shovel the fertiliser yourself, don’t sit back on your ass and watch me do it. If you walk in the house and get mud all over the floor that I just cleaned, be my guest, but clean it up after you are done getting s**t everywhere.

I’m tired of picking up after you. You tell me at least once a day that I need to get a job. You could just pay me for all the s**t that I do around the house. Every day when I get home from school, I have to do dishes, clean the counter tops, all the floors, make all the beds, do the laundry and get the trash. I’m not even going to mention all the work I do around your clinic.

And if I don’t do all that every day, I get grounded. Do you know how hard it is to keep up with chores and schoolwork? It’s freaking crazy.

I go to sleep at 10 o’clock every night because I am too tired to stay up any longer and do anything else. I have to get up at five in the morning, to get ready for school. On the weekends, I have to sleep with my door locked so my little brother won’t come get me up at six.

I’m tired of this bulls**t. Next time I have to pour a cup of coffee, I’m going to flip s**t. I have no idea how I have a life. I’m going to hate to see the day when you get too old to wipe your ass and you call me, asking for help. I won’t be there.

Your Pissed Kid,

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Just hours later, Tommy put nine bullets into Hannah’s laptop. Then posted the video on her Facebook wall – so her friends and their parents could see it, too.  This is no joke, he really did it.

I’ll link you to the video in just a minute… but first… I’d like to know, what do YOU think about this kind of parenting?  Don’t you think it’s a bit extreme to do that?

Do you think this is the “right” way to build a relationship with your daughter?

What would YOU have done, if you were in Tommy’s shoes?

I’ve got to tell you – I love his reaction on some fronts. On others, I worry it may have been too extreme.

Some people may think that using a gun is violent and that someone could have been hurt.  This is almost too strange to be true.

Let me explain:

As you discover in Relationship Rewind, the book, relationships of ANY kind (even the relationship between a father and his daughter) go through stages of Blissful happiness and stages of Drifting apart, emotionally.

It sounds like Tommy and his daughter Hannah were Drifting apart. In a non-romantic relationship.  They were no longer communicating, no longer seeing eye to eye on many fronts.

What usually happens in the Switch or in Drift phase is this: One partner over reacts. One partner shoots the other’s laptop, in an effort to get more attention. Or more respect.  It’s a way of reasserting roles in the relationship.

However, this usually backfires.  This happens because the other person isn’t just going to be submissive.  They’re going to react, out of fear or out of a need to assert themselves.

I’m not sure how Hannah reacted to her dad doing that.  She might think that one day her dad will eventually shoot her.  She might be really afraid, which is why this incident is so disturbing.  What do you do when you enter the phase of your relationship where you’re trying to assert your position.

Instead: I recommend sitting down and hashing out your differences using the techniques I show you in Relationship Rewind. Why? Because they give you an “edge” in the conversation. And makes sure you partner hears YOUR side of your story.

Still want to see Tommy shoot Hannah’s laptop? I don’t blame you 😉

Here’s a link to the video (scroll down to the bottom of the post. He starts shooting near the end)

Have A Happy Relationship,

– Ryan

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If you find yourself in a sexless relationship, don’t panic. You are not alone.

A sexless relationship is really stressful and I have seen it ruin lives and leave people feeling empty inside.  Sex is such a vital part of a healthy relationship and building intimacy with your partner is so important that when your relationship becomes sexless, it feels as if your partner has betrayed an unspoken trust between the two of you.  If you find yourself in the midst of a sexless relationship, here is how you can survive it.

You are not going to last long without sex.  Some people have relationships with people who are really asexual, and they love their partner, but end up having to find sex elsewhere.  I have never liked these relationships.  I understand they feel a bond with their partner, but the fact they go elsewhere for sex is what makes it seem as if the relationship is more of a friendship than anything else.  You might think it’s okay to go looking for sex with someone to take care of your needs, but this is a mistake.

Do not commit adultery or cheat.  This is the worst mistake you can make.  Think about it: how can you rebuild your old relationship if you are cheating and your partner finds out?  If you really want to start a new relationship, why not cleanly cut off the old one before moving forward?  You must always be fair to yourself and fair to your partner.  If they find out about your cheating, then your relationship is over.

You’ll have to deal with the relationship problems head on if you are not already planning to separate.  You’ll have to rebuild intimacy, and you’ll have to figure out how you can reconnect with your partner.  If you are dedicated to the idea of rehabilitating your relationship, then you’ll do whatever it takes.  You’ll take time off work, you’ll set aside time during the week, and you might even invest in a clinical psychologist to look into your relationship problems.

No one can really go on with life surviving a sexless relationship.  Sex is a cornerstone of a relationship; without it, the boat sinks.  You cannot just ignore the problem either.  You’re only human, and you need intimacy and the comfort of your partner’s body.  You’ll be depressed and angry without it.  Don’t fight it.  Come up with a plan!  Read through this website to try and develop one, and you’ll come out alright.

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Sexless marriages are usually caused by some past trauma or by a feeling of emotional separation.  There are ways of dealing with this. 

There are a variety of different things that could be what causes a sexless marriage.  What causes sexless marriage? it differs in each relationship.

There could be a physical or hormonal issue with one person. There could be a medical issue that is making it difficult for them to have much sex drive.  Some people just do not want sex as often as other people.  Some partners are severely mismatched in terms of sex drive, but there are plenty of ways to deal with this problem.

There might be some sort of mental or emotional issue that’s causing you or your partner to be less interested in sex, it could be something as far back as childhood and it could have to do with previous sexual relations. Knowing what causes sexless marriage is about going on an investigation mission.  For women, this is usually due to rape or molestation earlier in life.

The next thing to think about is that it might be something that the other partner is doing. They may have lost attraction. Or perhaps sex isn’t exciting enough or risky enough for them. It may even be boring. They may feel too much pressure to perform.  Never pressure your partner, it makes it worse.  Sex must be free and passionate, not locked down and stuffy.

It could be something to do with changes in their body, such as: after child birth, or menopause, or even to do with male menopause which is not really well-known. It could deal with Madonna-whore complex or a lack of communication.

So what’s really important is that you do investigation, research, study, you get your hands on everything and anything on the topic of sexless marriage, and you figure out what’s going wrong in your case.

You might be able to do it yourself with honest communication but you may need a sex therapist. In fact, I really recommend a sex therapist because you might find it easier to talk about your sex life with a stranger who will not judge you for what you say.  You’ll discover what you need as you go along in the process. Take it seriously and devote enough time to the process.

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Marriage is a fantastic journey, a nourishing spiritual experience that you are now on.  It has its ups and it has its downs.  Here are some tips for surviving your marriage you can take with you for the rest of your life. 

One of the things that’s going to help you the most to deal with problems during marriage is improving your communication skills.

Probably one of the things that cause the most difficulties and conflicts is simply communication, not being a great communicator or be able to express self the way you want, being an excellent listener or generally just having high enough social skills to be able to make the most of communication.

Want a great marriage? Invest everything you can in your communication skills.  If you cannot communicate well, then your marriage is on the rocks from the start.

This really is what empowers you to deal with difficulties, goes through tough times and to move forward and I’m going to give you a couple of tips for improving your communication skills. Your marriage depends on the best communication skills imaginable.

The first one is to take note if you’ve got any sort of shyness or social anxiety, anything that inhibits you or anything that prevents you from talking the way you want, acting the way you want, being who you want to be. You might think now you are in a marriage you can stop working on yourself. Wrong. That’s the way to divorceville.

Look to remove those using anxiety reduction techniques of which these are many around and this will help you to express yourself the way you want with no inhibition. Get rid of anxiety and have a happier marriage.

Honest communication and positive assertiveness are key ingredients to a great marriage!

You not being honest about how you feel or you want or being scared to offend and assertiveness is standing up for yourself and being very clear with what you want, who you are, not being a walked over and also not using aggressive or manipulative techniques to get your way.

Assertiveness is to try being real, honesty is about being extremely honest and the third thing you can do that will dramatically boost your communication skills is to recon, understanding women better.

So just improving your study of women’s psychology, what makes women different, what makes them tick and understanding how there’s so many differences between men and women with their psychology, with their priorities and values. The better grasp you have of these, that better you can do.

Study everything you can on understanding exactly what is important to women and how you can tick those boxes of having an amazing marriage. The quality of your marriage depends on many things. And lots of things happen that are outside of your control.

What makes an excellent marriage?

What makes an excellent marriage though, is how you deal with difficulties. Marriage-strength isn’t about a perfect world it’s about having systems to work through challenges successfully.

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When you’ve got marriage trouble, you need effective ways to kick start the passion you once had…

Every marriage has ups and downs.  We’ve heard that adage so many times that it may not seem like it’s worth much to you.  I know when I was having marriage problems, it seemed like all the advice out there didn’t speak to me, they didn’t really get to the heart of the problem, and I felt as if my marriage was going to just end.  Trust me, nothing is as bad as it seems at first.  Here are some tips for marriage trouble and how to survive it.

First off, work past your negative feelings and remember that nothing is as bad as it seems.  You can always restart your relationship.  That is, you can always start off on a new foot.  Have a romantic dinner by covering the dining room with rose petals and put on some romantic music.  Really knock the socks of your partner by showing them you have an amazing romantic side that they have yet to explore.  You’d be surprise how a change of setting erases most marriage troubles.

If you think that your problems are deeper than that, and that your marriage troubles result from deep seated issues, then take time out of your schedule to fix them.  One of the biggest marriage troubles there is is when one spouse think that the other is cheating.  It can really consume a person when they no longer trust their partner.

If that’s the case, then rebuilding trust is the #1 priority at this point.  You have to make it clear that your partner is the most important person in your life, and that you are committed to making your marriage work.  If this means that you go whisking off to Paris, the city of lights, to have a fun, romantic week, then that’s what that means.

Sometimes it’s not you, it’s them.  Maybe your spouse is working through past trauma, like an old boyfriend or girlfriend who hurt them and they’re now in a state of never trusting anyone.  They married you because they felt that there was hope in a new relationship, but it’s so hard to move past their old wounds that they resurface, even when you don’t expect them.

In this case, it’s time to see a therapist.  You could end up doing a lot more harm than good trying to wade through your spouses psyche without professional help.  It can be a hard trek, and psychologists can be expensive, but they are worth it because some things require a professional touch.

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