Missing Someone Special

He’s texting you again. He won’t be able to make it tonight. It’s not you – it’s just – he needs space. That dreaded word. Space. What do you do  when your guy asks for space? Should you give it to him or should you insist that you spend more time together?

The answer to this question isn’t as easy as it might seem. There’s a fine line between too much space and too much time together. The important thing to remember is that he isn’t asking to break up. He’s just asking for some time away. Every guy and girl will be different in their respective needs. Maybe he needs more space and more time away from one another than you do. If that’s the case, simply honor it.

Try to determine whether or not he wants to be with you. Talk to him about your concerns. If he says it’s just because he needs his own time in addition to his time with you, then you need to respect that. If you don’t, then he will find someone else who does. In addition, it’s often considered more healthy for couples to have activities and interests that are separate  and individual. It’s great to be compatible and to enjoy spending time together, but it’s just as important to maintain some things that are just “yours.”

When your guy asks for space, don’t panic. Find out if he’s looking for other girls or if he just needs time to himself. If it’s the latter, don’t worry. That’s a good sign and some space will only strengthen your relationship and better both of you.

Finding a healthy way to deal with relationship break-ups is a life skill in and of itself…

Relationship break-ups can really ruin our life rhythm.  Our life goes from feeling in sync, like our circle is complete, to a darkness that pervades our senses and takes the sweet taste of life.  You begin to blame yourself and run through your mind about how things could have been different.  What if you had just been more open minded?  What if you had been more flexible, or listened more?  What could you have done to prevent the breakup?  These kinds of thoughts are unproductive and I’ll help you figure out how to move past them.

The first thing you should do is forgive yourself.  You may not be able to forgive your partner right now for all the hurt feelings that come with any break up.  Maybe you broke up because of infidelity or because your partner felt that  their life path would take them somewhere where you weren’t.  This happens.  You must first forgive yourself and stop torturing yourself over what’s happened in the past.  You must go through the grief of loss, and then give your relationship a funeral.

It’s Okay to Grieve

Grief is a natural part of loss, and an essential part of life.  We grieve so that we can remember the good parts, and then move on.  Perhaps you are not used to grieving?  Perhaps you want to hang onto your relationship.  If you hang on to it, it’s real for you in some way.  This part is natural.  Remember your relationship  for what it was.  Was there passion?  Was their excitement?  Was there romance?  Did you feel secure in knowing you had found your soul mate and that life was looking up?

It is so crucial that you do not feel self pity or try to suppress your emotions.  You don’t have to carry on as if life was perfect without your significant other.  It’s okay to go home and cry, to look over old photos, and to let yourself feel what you feel.  This is such an important step.

Give Your Relationship a Funeral

It’s time to forget the past.  It’s over with.  Your boyfriend or girlfriend are probably going through as much internal turmoil as you are, but it’s not time to dwell on that. You need to start concentrating on your future and thinking about how you want to improve your life from here on out . Remember to always cherish yourself.  Treat yourself to a candlelight dinner or take a walk through the park.  Write a poem about yourself.  It’s time to think of silly ways you can remind yourself about just how wonderful of a person you are, and to forget your ex forever.

 

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A single rose is a beautiful reminder of your love and affection for your girlfriend/wife.

Have you thought about buying roses for your date? Most men have. It’s difficult to know when it is the appropriate time to give roses. Sometimes roses for your date can symbolize that you are serious about the relationship or they may label you as a romantic.  Other times, it can make it look like things are more serious than they actually are.

Valentine’s Day.

I don’t care what your girlfriend says, even on a first date, you should get a rose. If it’s the lover’s holiday then you need to get roses for your date. Even wives should get roses on Valentine’s Day. If your wife or your date has asked you for something else instead of roses that will evetually die and be thrown away, that’s okay. Get them something else but still get them one rose.

Giving roses is a tradition that stretches back to the Middle Ages.  Red was a sign of life and fertility.  Roses were also really expensive to raise, so only nobility could afford them.  Roses show up in a lot of romantic novels, including vampire novels because roses are often the color of blood.  The rose signifies so much in our modern culture.

However, it’s important to understand that there has to be more than just roses for your date. Any time that you surprise your girlfirend or your wife with a rose, it shouldn’t be as a make-up gesture. It should be purely because you love her and want to show her.

If you haven’t been paying attention to your girl and you’ve left her alone then roses will not help. A rose is only meaningful if the relationship is meaningful. To solve this conundrum, make sure that your relationship is meaningful and then enhance it with a rose!

Listening to your girl and acting as an equal in your relationship will go a long way. If you have a loving and kind relationship, then roses will symbolize your love in a moving way. Take the time to build a wonderful relationship with your significant other and then add romance.  Use roses creatively.  Try leaving a trail of rose petals to the bedroom.  Their scent is an aphrodisiac.

Another fun way to share roses is through unexpected moments. After your girlfriend has had a stressful day and comes over to hang out, you surprise her with a single rose. It’s a kind gesture that shows thought and planning. Whatever you do, just remember that it won’t mean anything if you just hand your girl a rose. You need to have an intimate connection with her before a rose will mean anything.

Let your rose not only be a symbol for love but be a symbol of the love within your relationship.

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Seeing marriage problems signs early is very important.Seeing marriage problems signs?

What do we need to watch out for if we think we’re seeing signs of marriage problems?  We might think our marriage is going just fine, but are there special signs we should keep an eye on so that we can predict a problem before it becomes too much to handle?  There are, and if you’re knowledgeable, you can save your marriage before it’s too late!

First off, how often do you and your spouse make love?  Physical intimacy is the bedrock for many marriages.  Without it, your marriage devolves into simply a great friendship, and for many people, that’s just not enough.  If you feel your love life has taken a turn for the worse, it’s time to head off the problem and do something spontaneous and romantic.  Make sure that it breaks your normal routine and that your spouse is genuinely surprised.  Nothing builds romance and passion like uncertainty and spontaneity.

Another marriage problem sign you need to watch out for is if your spouse seems distant or aloof when they had been interested and engaged before.  This can be a surefire sign of marriage boredom, and if left to fester, can turn into strife later.  Marriage is supposed to build both people within the relationship and can offer ways for both people to grow and experience life in ways they couldn’t as individuals.  If your relationship isn’t accomplishing this, boredom can set in, and so can the wandering eye.

Does your spouse avoid you?  This might be, in fact, unthinkable for a couple.  However, when the glow of being newlyweds fades, have you fallen into the rut of monotony?  Do you feel that you do not need to do anything special for your mate now that you are married?  If you don’t show your partner that you value your relationship with them, they may feel slighted and distant.  They may find that staying at work extra hours or going out with their friends may be preferable to being home with you.

This might sound harsh, but relationships are ongoing and require a lot of work.  Your partner entered the marriage with you out of love, respect, passion, and because they though their life would be enhanced.  You most likely did for the same reasons, or more.  You cannot just rest on your laurels after you say “I do.”  It’s time to make the most of your relationship with your partner and to cherish them.

Do activities you know your partner loves, or talk about subjects they like to talk about.  Let them know you value your time together, and your marriage will take on a new character.  Change your home décor and buy a new car.  Go to a movie you would never otherwise go to or take up a new sport.  Take your spouse out to an art festival or to samba dancing.  There’s a world of new activities.

There are more signs of a strained marriage, but if you notice that your spouse is avoiding you, or you are having fewer and fewer chances to have intimate relations, or if you feel like your partner is just plain bored, there are ways to head off these problems so that you don’t find yourself in a psychologist’s office, wondering why you have to now have marriage counseling.

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