Not Attracted Anymore

Losing the attraction in a relationship is a very common issue people face…

Attraction is an important feature of relationships and unfortunately it is typically one that fades. Thankfully, fading attraction doesn’t have to be the case. What can you do to avoid not feeling attracted to your partner anymore?

First, make sure that you and your partner are commited to your physical health. It’s important to continue to work out. Trying new activities such as white water rafting, hiking, surfing, or even zip-lining can be fun ways to get a workout in and do something physical together. Maintaing your body is one of the best ways to keep your partner’s interest. It’s one of the best ways to keep the level of attraction between the two of you as well.

Second, personal hygiene. Everyone loves a magnetic smile and a white smile will make any smile shine regardless of your bite, gum size or tooth size. Brush your teeth twice daily and floss. Of course, soap up in the shower and use a nice perfume or cologne at the beginning of the day. Just make sure not to try to use your fragrance to mask odor. This doesn’t work! The last “personal hygiene” issue involves your skin. Wear sunscreen before going out into the sun for longer than an hour and apply lotion every other day at the bare minimum. Keeping your skin luscious and soft will help keep your partner’s interest.

Lastly, remember that you can stay attractive for one another. You will age and you both have imperfections. However, you have the opportunity to be the best version of yourself and that’s what you should be looking to hold onto as your relationship continues. Don’t just do it for your partner, do it for yourself.

Beyond the physical appearance, the mental stuff is important too. Love that blissful state of mind when you’re in the honeymoon phase of your relationship? As you know, your feelings and emotions change. But what if there was a way to get back those initial sensual feelings and keep them for good? Watch my FREE video presentation to see how…CLICK HERE to check out the video while you still can…

Sexless marriages are usually caused by some past trauma or by a feeling of emotional separation.  There are ways of dealing with this. 

There are a variety of different things that could be what causes a sexless marriage.  What causes sexless marriage? it differs in each relationship.

There could be a physical or hormonal issue with one person. There could be a medical issue that is making it difficult for them to have much sex drive.  Some people just do not want sex as often as other people.  Some partners are severely mismatched in terms of sex drive, but there are plenty of ways to deal with this problem.

There might be some sort of mental or emotional issue that’s causing you or your partner to be less interested in sex, it could be something as far back as childhood and it could have to do with previous sexual relations. Knowing what causes sexless marriage is about going on an investigation mission.  For women, this is usually due to rape or molestation earlier in life.

The next thing to think about is that it might be something that the other partner is doing. They may have lost attraction. Or perhaps sex isn’t exciting enough or risky enough for them. It may even be boring. They may feel too much pressure to perform.  Never pressure your partner, it makes it worse.  Sex must be free and passionate, not locked down and stuffy.

It could be something to do with changes in their body, such as: after child birth, or menopause, or even to do with male menopause which is not really well-known. It could deal with Madonna-whore complex or a lack of communication.

So what’s really important is that you do investigation, research, study, you get your hands on everything and anything on the topic of sexless marriage, and you figure out what’s going wrong in your case.

You might be able to do it yourself with honest communication but you may need a sex therapist. In fact, I really recommend a sex therapist because you might find it easier to talk about your sex life with a stranger who will not judge you for what you say.  You’ll discover what you need as you go along in the process. Take it seriously and devote enough time to the process.

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