Sexless Marriages

Being able to get your wife in the mood is central to having a happy marriage.

One principle that I believe will really help to get your wife in the mood is the principle of touching as physical intimacy.  Getting your wife in the mood involves building up intimacy and desire, and touching is the most effective way to do this.

Getting your wife in the mood requires good foreplay.  You have to build up to it.  One thing I do to get my woman in the mood is to spend lots of time cuddling.  You simply lie next to your mate, and lightly feel each other’s skin.  Women respond to tactile stimulation even more so than men.  That’s why this method works.

You may have the best techniques in the world for turning a woman on, for giving her an orgasm and for somehow being a sexual hero, but you may not be able to get your wife to budge on saying “yes” to sex.

What works more than pretty anything else is having a lot of physical connection, touching, and closeness in your relationship. A key to get your wife in the mood is building that connection.

So I encourage you to spend more time touching your wife.  Give more hugs, hold her hand more often, kiss her more, or engage in more foreplay. Get your wife in the mood through building more tension.

You’ll find that the more you’re touching here and there, the more of a physical bond there is.  And you know what that means.  It means you’re going to have more sex. You can get your wife in the mood if you create the most powerful physical intimacy.

In order for her to want you she has to feel comfortable around you, and that there is a connection.  Some women are more in tune with their animal selves than others, but technique is a surefire way to spend more time in the bedroom.

Think back to when you first started dating.  A lot of times we just touch our partner without thinking about it.  When our relationship was just getting started, physical intimacy came naturally.

Maybe you want sex but maybe you’re not good and sharing physical contact and getting her warmed-up.

Perhaps you’re just not good enough at non-sexual touch because women need to have a lot of confidence and support and intimacy in relationships and one of the best sources of these feelings and emotions is being touched.

So I highly recommend going back to the drawing board and analyzing the amount of physical contact you have in your relationship. To get your wife in the mood is to enjoy your relationship.

Look to seriously ramp up how close you are physically and get her to feel comfortable and warm and trustworthy in your eyes.

You’ll find there’ll be a very close connection between the amount of touching in your relationship and the amount of sex you’re having.

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If you want to turn your wife on, you need to be able to influence her mind.

You see, women can be turned on like men, but it’s different.  Women need more time to get revved up and it takes a good amount of time before they are really in the mood and ready to go, whereas a man can really just be turned on like a light bulb.  If you want to really turn your wife on, then you’re going to have to learn to push her buttons well before you get into the bedroom.

First off, you need to be confident and manly as a normal part of your life.  It needs to be ingrained in who you are.  Women respond to prolonged attraction.  Sex to them is like a steady crescendo that starts early in the day and comes out later.  Always remember to be assertive and confident during the day, and keep yourself in good physical shape.

Now, what do you do to turn your wife on?  Women want to submit to their man.  When you talk to women, they will tell you that their most intense sexual experiences occur when they really submit to their husband in bed.  That’s why you have to be confident and aggressive.  Do not be afraid to act impulsively on your emotions: you’ll find she responds a lot better than boring, predictability.

Surprise her!  Try to do something romantic during the day that she doesn’t predict.  Always tease her.  One thing a friend of mine did was pop into the shower with his wife.  It startled her for a bit.  She was shocked that he was so impulsive.  But then, he left the shower and walked back downstairs.  You build attraction by doing surprising stuff and then teasing her.

Another tip to turn your wife on is to focus a lot on your physical health.  A lot of times when we’re married, we don’t feel we have to look as good as they day we married.  Actually, you should look better.  After all, you’re the source for your wife’s sexuality, so you don’t want her to get frustrated and start getting the wandering eye.

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When looking for solutions to stop divorce you need to remain optimistic. Although it’s hard, it’s not impossible.Easy Solutions to Stop Divorce

The name of this article is possibly a bit misleading, as stopping a divorce is rarely if ever easy, but if you are pointed in the right direction it is markedly less difficult.  You want your marriage to stay together and you do not want to go through the life altering process of divorce.  Who would?  There are some steps you can take to protect your relationship, and you can get started right now!

Reinvent your relationship

Right now your relationship is plagued with negative cycles.  You come home tired from work and irritable because your boss hates you and your job is getting worse by the day.  Then your spouse brings up something small and you go off the rails.  You feel like your temper is always a short fuse.  You find yourself arguing about things that may not even matter.  You feel like your entire life is filled with strife.

If this is the case, it’s time to reinvent your life and relationship.  There is no need for things to continue on as they are now.  Change careers, change neighborhoods, change clothes, change whatever needs to be changed so that you can feel satisfied when you look at yourself in the mirror in the morning.  This way, you can look at yourself, and your spouse with entirely new eyes.

Take a break from the everyday

Another way to break the cycle of conflict is to break out of the old mold and go on vacation.  A couples retreat works wonders for many couples who feel they need to hit the reset button on their relationship.  In fact, going on a couples retreat is an easy solution to stop a divorce.  Picture yourself enjoying the view of the Rocky Mountains in Colorado or witnessing the view of a deep blue ocean in Hawaii.  There are many exotic locales you can go to so that you and your spouse forget all of your troubles.

Get serious

One of the simplest things you can do to stop a divorce is to set aside some time with your partner in a quiet setting and talk.  Talk like you’ve never talked before.  Communication breakdown is the greatest contributing factor in divorces.  Think of how many people sit in divorce court, wondering what happened when they just could’ve spoken up much earlier.

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You shouldn’t be searching for sexless relationship signs right now…

If you’re reading this page, then you might be in fear of being in a sexless relationship or having your relationship devolve into one.  This is a valid fear.  A sexless relationship can ruin your life and make you feel trapped.  If you are the one that does not want to have sex, then it might be a sign of much deeper problems that you’ll have to deal with before you can move on with your relationship.  If you are searching for signs of a sexless relationship, here are a few to look at.

Do you avoid having sex?  Do you know when your partner gets in the mood, or what signs your partner gives that they want to make love?  Do you try and disappear when this happens?  I knew of one couple where the woman didn’t want to make love.  She’d be “busy” on date nights or always use excuses, like a lot of paperwork or visiting an in-law to try and get out of sex with her boyfriend.  Their relationship ended before too long.

How often do you and your partner make love?  It’s normal for couples in love to spend a good deal of time flirting or making love.  If you are only making love once a month, then that’s a huge red flag that you’re in a sexless relationship and you need to do something at once to break the pattern.

Another big sign of being in a sexless relationship is the feeling that your relationship with your partner is mechanical.  You get up, you pay the bills, you go to work, you take the kids to school, but there’s no spark or romance in your life.  You feel more and more distant from your partner because you don’t spend any time discussing intimate subjects.

If you’re still searching for signs of a sexless relationship, then these are sure fire examples of what goes on in a sexless relationship.  Now that you know, there’s a lot of things you can do to get ahead of the problem.  I have written plenty of extensive articles on how to repair a marriage and build it from the bottom up.

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Can sexless relationship therapy really work?  Can it repair a loveless relationship?

Sexless relationships occur when one partner is dissatisfied with the amount of sex happening in the relationship. Usually in these cases, the sex drive of each partner is mismatched, where one partner wants to make love with far greater frequency than the other. There is natural variation in the human sex drive, so it’s highly possible that you can connect with your partner on a number of levels, but in terms of the bedroom, you two can be polar opposites.

In other cases, though, some couples simply lose interest in having sex. Many married couples go for years without having sex, but it’s only recently that this problem is being talked about in the open. Why are there sexless relationships, and does sexless relationship therapy really work? There are ways to deal with a passionless marriage, because a sexless relationship can lead to divorce or separation. Couples who undergo sexless relationship therapy usually lead happier lives. But what type of therapy is best?

When looking through the many books on sexless relationship therapy, or when trying to choose a therapist, always remember that the best sexless relationship therapy is usually intensive and lasts awhile. 

Beware of any book that promises to magically bring romance back into your life, especially with little effort or superficial exercises.

Most of the time, sexless relationships are due to a past trauma in one partner’s life that had remained secret, or other deep, complex issues that cannot be dealt with in a single therapy session or a simple exercise. The longer it is you’ve gone without sex as a couple, the more intense therapy you’ll need. Marriage boot camps are excellent forms of therapy for severe cases, as you’ll spend hours with a trained therapist in a closed, intimate setting, where you will be able to talk at length about issues that may have been bothering you, but you were never conscious of. These camps are usually retreats and most couples who go to them rave about their efficacy.

Specialized Sexless Relationship Therapy

Tantric yoga is a great way to bring a spark back to a relationship and is an effective form of sexless relationship therapy. Tantric yoga focusses on getting the person to be in tune with the energy of their body, especially sexual energy, and teaches people how to heighten their sensory perception. Couples who do tantric yoga together report that their intimacy increases many fold after a few sessions, and find that it’s easier to initiate love making once they reconnect with their spouse. Check your local yellow pages to see if there is a tantric instructor in your city. Even if you have to make a long trip, it’s quite worth it.

Sexless relationship therapy is designed to rebuild intimacy and help you and your partner reconnect and make you remember earlier parts of the relationship when there was still passion and fire. Any therapy worth its salt will not be easy, but the rewards will last a lifetime.

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If you find yourself in a sexless relationship, don’t panic. You are not alone.

A sexless relationship is really stressful and I have seen it ruin lives and leave people feeling empty inside.  Sex is such a vital part of a healthy relationship and building intimacy with your partner is so important that when your relationship becomes sexless, it feels as if your partner has betrayed an unspoken trust between the two of you.  If you find yourself in the midst of a sexless relationship, here is how you can survive it.

You are not going to last long without sex.  Some people have relationships with people who are really asexual, and they love their partner, but end up having to find sex elsewhere.  I have never liked these relationships.  I understand they feel a bond with their partner, but the fact they go elsewhere for sex is what makes it seem as if the relationship is more of a friendship than anything else.  You might think it’s okay to go looking for sex with someone to take care of your needs, but this is a mistake.

Do not commit adultery or cheat.  This is the worst mistake you can make.  Think about it: how can you rebuild your old relationship if you are cheating and your partner finds out?  If you really want to start a new relationship, why not cleanly cut off the old one before moving forward?  You must always be fair to yourself and fair to your partner.  If they find out about your cheating, then your relationship is over.

You’ll have to deal with the relationship problems head on if you are not already planning to separate.  You’ll have to rebuild intimacy, and you’ll have to figure out how you can reconnect with your partner.  If you are dedicated to the idea of rehabilitating your relationship, then you’ll do whatever it takes.  You’ll take time off work, you’ll set aside time during the week, and you might even invest in a clinical psychologist to look into your relationship problems.

No one can really go on with life surviving a sexless relationship.  Sex is a cornerstone of a relationship; without it, the boat sinks.  You cannot just ignore the problem either.  You’re only human, and you need intimacy and the comfort of your partner’s body.  You’ll be depressed and angry without it.  Don’t fight it.  Come up with a plan!  Read through this website to try and develop one, and you’ll come out alright.

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When people write to me about a sexless loveless marriage, they usually feel hurt and confused. Many are hopeless. They don’t believe that they can change their situation. Thankfully, you can. You just have to be willing to try.

Don’t despair!  There is a way out, and I’ve helped couples rekindle the passion in their marriage and look at life with brand new eyes.

With a sexless loveless marriage, you may need to do things that you wouldn’t have ever considered before.

First off, you need to evaluate why it is you are not having sex.  Is your sex drive low, or is it your partner’s?  This is a key question.  Do you feel like your spouse is holding sex over you?  Do you start having the wandering eye and feel bad about it?  Here are some things to think about when solving the problem of a sexless, loveless marriage.

Evaluate Your Schedule.

So many times it is the schedule of your lives that it causing the problems. Work, school, children’s activities, it’s all too much. All of these obligations can keep married partners so busy that they are either too tired or too stressed to find time for sex.

Consider finding a new hobby that the two of you can do together or revisit an old hobby. one couple that i know decided to take up rock-climbing. It was physical and adventurous, and they would go rock climbing in romantic locales.  Doing something physical also builds attraction.

With rock climbing, you must work as a team. One person stands below while the other one climbs up, and then you switch. Maybe the rock wall could represent the sexless loveless marriage. You can accomplish something together as a couple.

So many times couples are unwilling to give this situation the time it deserves. It takes time, that’s just being realistic.  You must be realistic.

Couple’s activities are good, and so is cuddling time!  You have to remember how to be physically intimate with one another.  Spend some time cuddling and talking with one another.  Trust is easy to lose, but hard to rebuild.

So remember: Be supportive of your spouse, and take all the time you need to rebuild your relationship.  Work out your schedule, and try to rebuild the physical intimacy you’ve lost.

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Living a sexless existence is not healthy.  It can wear on you after awhile.  Sexless relationships don’t have the spark of healthy ones, so here’s some tips on what you can do to put the spark back into your existence.  Sexless Relationship ?

The death of sex in a relationship is catastrophic, but it’s happening to millions of Americans nation wide.  6 out of 10 Americans surveyed said they were not having as much sex as they would like, and the number rises to almost 7 out of 10 married Americans!  It’s practically an epidemic, and it’s really putting a huge strain on so many marriages.  How do you bring back the spark into a sexless relationship?

First thing’s first, improve your sex appeal.  You cannot be a dud.  You’ve got to wow your partner and really up your game when it comes to sexual appeal.  This means getting out of the house and going to the gym, and possibly looking at what’s going on with your wardrobe.  You’re not going to make your partner want you with a big belly or flabby arms?  When I wanted to bring the spark back in my relationship, I went straight to the gym.

Now for the mental game.  You have to seduce your partner.  You see, love making is supposed to be a chase.  It’s not just in the act itself, it’s also about building sexual tension between you and your partner, so that you practically rip each other’s clothes off when it comes time to make love.  You can do this by changing the way you handle your relationship.  You have to learn some seduction technqiues.

The first thing you do is to not be too easy.  Never be desperate, and always exude confidence.  This works for men and women.  Men and women show themselves to be confident differently though.  Men must be slightly cocky and a bit arrogant, and women need to look seductive, as if they know all of the secrets of the Kama Sutra.

The next big step to building sexual tensions is to tease your partner.   You have to play hard to get.  You entice them, then you step back.  For men, it might mean teasing the woman a bit and make her feel self conscious, then backing off.  Always act as if you have your life together, as if you’re always on to the next big thing.  It will make her feel like she wants to be a part of your world.

That’s really what attraction is all about.  It’s about making the other person want to be a part of your world.  If you’re irresistible, confident, and look the part, you’ll find that sex naturally fits back into your relationship.  This may take months of effort, but when you hit the sheets, it’ll all be worth it.

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If you feel stuck in a sexless relationship I want to help save you.Stuck in a Sexless Relationship

The first place I’d begin is to look at the guy in the relationship and determine whether or not he is suffering from a condition called Madonna-whore complex. This can affect relationships dramatically and cause the man to be uninterested in his partner.

To be stuck in a sexless relationship is awful.

The main issue with the Madonna-whore complex is that the guy has this idea in his head that the woman he marries or is in a serious relationship with, is different than the other sexy woman he sees and wants to have sex with. He sees his partner as pure and not sexually open.Upon getting married a guy with this issue will lose interest in having sex with his wife. And she’ll find herself stuck in a sexless relationship.

So when this is happening, not only will he lose interest in having sex with his wife but after awhile he will get really turned off to sex. He’ll resist it, avoid it and in some extreme cases he may feel like having sex with his wife is incest.

If this is the issue that is forcing you to be stuck in a sexless relationship, then you will need to find a good sex therapist to help. The issue is very deep-rooted and needs an objective look to find it’s specific causes. It is surprisingly common among men with conservative upbringings or over-protective mothers.

It’s important to identify if  you or your partner is suffering from this Madonna-whore complex. You’ll end up stuck in a sexless relationship if you are. There is no other option. This is where it leads.

As I mentioned it’s very common particularly if you have very conservative parents or you had a negative relationship with your mother. It is also common if you spent a lot of time having a lot of sex with girls when you were single.

The end result is being stuck in a sexless relationship. Which is awful – it really is.

To be stuck in a sexless relationship is worth doing whatever is required to fix this problem. And if it is the Madonna-whore complex, then sex therapy may be required.

Being stuck in a sexless relationship is like a prison sentence except you have been given the power to change your sentence. Find a sex therapist if you feel that you or your partner may have Madonna-whore complex and save your relationship.

In reality, surviving a sexless marriage is impossible.  The best thing you can do really is to try and fix it.  Do not suffer through it.

Instead of merely surviving a sexless marriage, I want to encourage you to do more.  You can’t survive a relationship that exists with no intimacy.  You must either move on, or repair your relationship so that you can bring the fire back in your life.

Surviving a sexless marriage is not enough.

I want you to fix it because miracles do occur, and you never know. it could be your relationship that gets the miracle. Surviving a sexless marriage is not only possible it’s expected if you follow all of the available advice.

The problem CAN be fixed

It’s not enough to try and just survive in a sexless marriage. Surviving a sexless marriage is the minimum goal. Let’s go beyond that and find a happy, balanced marriage.

Don’t allow your sexual frustrations to bubble over; don’t wait to get angry, feel rejected and not feel good about yourself. Part of surviving a sexless marriage is realizing how bad you are feeling while in it.  If you start blaming your partner for the situation you could only make things worse.

There could be a very simple and easily understandable reason for your sexless marriage. To move forward, you need to find out what the cause of your sexless relationship is.

First, I want you to work on your attitude. Surviving a sexless marriage really does come down to your mental approach. In fact you’ve got to be mentally tough. I want to encourage you not to put up with a substandard relationship. A key to surviving a sexless marriage is not tolerating things that you don’t like.  This is about self respect.

Have higher standards for your marriage!

There isn’t a benefit for putting up with a low-quality marriage. This WILL affect your happiness and other areas of your life. It’s mentally draining and hard to live with, as I’m sure you’ve already found out. This kind of a marriage limits what you do with your life.

The attitude that you will simply “surivive” a sexless marriage is the kind of attitude that will not only prolong it but will lead to your unhappiness in life. For example, take two couples. In the first relationship, the husband is a heavy smoker and the wife hates it. She complains about it but doesn’t do anything about it.

In the other relationship, the man is a heavy smoker and the wife hates it. Instead of complaining about it, she does something about it. Every time she catches her husband smoking she leaves for a period of time or she kicks him out for a period of time.

The first wife wants change but isn’t going after it. The second wife wants change and decides to create change.  See the big difference?

Guess which wife is going to get her husband to stop smoking? It’s the same with your sexless marriage. It’s time for you to play hardball.

You’ve got to take it more seriously and make more of a point that you won’t tolerate it. You will need to be able to provide other options for your partner which may involve finding a good relationship therapist.

Even if sex isn’t the most important thing in your partner’s life, it will still be important to them if they know it is important to you.

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