Sexless Relationship

There’s some serious dangers of being in a sexless marriage…

There are many dangers of being in a sexless relationship.  It’s not a benign thing that will just pass away with time.  The two greatest dangers of being stuck in a sexless relationship is that your partner may cheat on you, or that you may eventually become so emotionally frustrated your relationship will end in bitterness and pain.  I hate to be the one to tell you, but these are your only two options if you are stuck in a sexless marriage.  The status quo cannot be sustained.

The greatest problem you might face is infidelity.  The reason your partner may cheat on you is obvious: you’re not having sex.  If you are the one that is not having the sex you want to have, let me be the first to tell you that cheating is a horrible idea.  It’s really an awful idea.  Think about it.  How long will you be able to see your new boyfriend or girlfriend while keeping your marriage?  What happens if you fall in love?

Infidelity is unfair to your spouse and unfair to the person you’re going to. Think about it, if you were having regular sex in your marriage, would you cheat?  So then, are you just using this new person for the comfort of their body?  That’s demeaning.  Plus, it won’t last.  Then you’re back to your spouse who may or may not know of your infidelity, and then you divorce.  You’re left with nothing.

I know you probably think you can get away with it, and that it’s unfair for you to stay in a relationship that is torturing you from the inside, but if that’s the case, it is better to fix your relationship from the inside out or leave, rather than go through the tragedy of divorce due to infidelity.

What is the other danger of being in a sexless marriage?

Feeling trapped and depressed.  If you decide not to cheat, then you feel alone and your body is not getting the love and attention it needs.  This depression can spread like a virus to other areas of your life, and if it’s not taken care of, you’ll notice that even you too lose the drive for sex, and that in and of itself is one of the biggest hidden dangers.  Continue reading through this site, and I’ll help you through this difficult period in your life.

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If you’re stuck in a sexless relationship, then I truly feel for you.  There are things you can do, but you have to act as soon as you can!

Sometimes a sexless relationship is the result of what I call “bedroom boredom.”  You see, sex is supposed to be exciting and creative, and all too often I get emails from couples who know that the spark has gone out of their life.  They just feel like sex has become mechanical, and they feel like they don’t even want to have it most of the time.

Bedroom boredom comes from too much monotony.  You have sex in the same positions or you have it at the same time during the week.  You don’t vary anything up, so of course it becomes monotonous and boring!  You are not doing anything exciting!  There’s no spontaneity  so of course there is no joy in making love.  Do not fear though, we can fix this.

Spend more time with foreplay and flirting.  You see, we’re naturally sexual creatures, but we need some time to rev our engines.  Go on a nice vacation or take some time for a dinner with just the two of you.  I used to have no idea how to spice up date night, so I found some time to read about Don Juan.  You see, Don Juan was the immortal lover from Spain.  He even seduced a nun!

How did he do it?  Well, he cordoned off a part of his fabulous mansion (don’t all great lovers have mansions?) and he just had dinner with the nun.  He had his servants prepare the food and put it into a slot where Don Juan would get it so that there would be no interruptions.  He then focused solely on the nun and stared into her eyes, never interrupting her and concentrating entirely on her.

Well, let’s just say Don Juan enjoyed his evening.  He came up with a strange date night, but it worked!  What’s missing from a lot of people’s romantic relationship is the feeling of intimacy, that your partner is supremely interested in you and what you want.  Take the time to sit down with your spouse and really listen to them.  The intimacy will be a shot in the arm.

Finding a boyfriend and girlfriend in a sexless relationship can usually mean that the spark has been lost in the bedroom. It’s time to turn your sex-life from a PG rating to an X rating.

Usually, a very healthy sex life in a marriage or in a relationship comes down to both people always looking to find ways to make it fresh and different and exciting. Being a boyfriend and girlfriend in a sexless relationship can really make all your life boring.

Like anything in life, if it stays just exactly the same, it gets boring.

It’s what worth looking at your sex life and looking if there are things you can do, maybe you can go to an adult store for ideas, and maybe you can explore elements of your sexuality that you haven’t tried before but always look to keep things new and interesting and exciting for your partner.

Getting idea perhaps of some of the things they would want to do or try or have fun with. Being a boyfriend and girlfriend in a sexless relationship can happen to anyone. Even just being busy with work for a while or having other stresses means you can find yourself as a boyfriend and girlfriend in a sexless relationship.

So open your mind to giving more naughtiness a try because sometimes the lack of sex in a relationship can come down to just that feeling of routine and repetition. A real solution to a boyfriend and girlfriend in a sexless relationship is pushing the envelope of sexual deviance.

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