The Honeymoon Stage

You’ve probably heard about the importance of keeping your relationship young, fresh, and full of spontaneity. Like always, the most difficult part is to incorporate these ideas into your relationship.

All relationships, not just romantic relationships, benefit from a bit of spontaneity.

Many couples find that when they begin to lose their spark they begin to drift apart. This doesn’t have to be the case. The couples who stay together are the couples who are still able to surprise each other and who enjoy doing random, fun, new things together. I often think that this is why young love is often considered so romantic. It’s this kind of spontaneity that happens as you begin to know someone and fall in love with them.

To keep the fun alive in your relationship, try doing spontaneous activities. If surprises aren’t your partner’s favorite thing, then don’t make it a surprise. You can plan to do something random. What happens if you decide to get on ticketmaster and purchase great seats to the next orchestra, performance, comic, etc. Doing something like this can keep the surprise away, while keeping all of the spontaneity alive.

Try new things. Dance in the rain. Run around outside in bare feet. Try to awaken the child in both of you. I’m not asking you to be childish, just to be child-like. You’ll find that you both haven’t done a multitude of things in your lives. So go out and do them. You don’t have to do something every day, but shoot for every two weeks or every month. Make time for fun and your relationship will be more likely to last.

Most men take a laid-back approach to dating and then they wonder why women never want them. It’s simple: If you want her, make her want you. Women will fawn over you if you know what to do and how to behave. Let her get to know you and let that be enough for her to fall head over heels.

Confidence. You don’t need to be the bad boy, the gentleman or the fitness fanatic. You just need to be confident in who you are and what you have to offer as a partner.

Personality. You don’t need to be extroverted, introverted, shy, quiet, loud, outspoken, funny, serious or intelligent. You just need to be YOU. Sharing your personality and having opinions make you someone worth getting to know. Nothing is more annoying or frustrating than the guy who is flat. He isn’t seen as balanced. He’s seen as boring.

Dress to Impress. No designer brands necessary, but try to dress for your body type. Choose outfits that look good on you. It’s okay if you want to dress casual, I’m not saying you have to wear Armani suits. I’m merely saying that it’s best if you wear things that showcase your assets and hide your flaws.

Health. It’s true, this is one area that most people want to gloss over, but it’s important. Take care of your health. Those teeth and gums, brush them. That hair, style it. Your body, make it the best that it can be. Take an active role in your fitness and your health. You don’t need to be perfect or a Ryan Gosling, but you should be taking care of your body.

If you follow these simple steps, you’ll be someone that women find interesting and attractive. You’ll be someone that they want. It’s always easier to approach women when you know that they are more likely to be interested in dating you. Following this advice will help you land that coveted ideal.

Follow a few key principles and you too can have a lasting relationship…

You’ve found someone who lights up your world and makes you the happiest you’ve ever been. You never tire of seeing her and every moment seems magical. How do you keep this feeling before the honeymoon phase is over?

Puppy love. We’ve all been through it and we know what it’s like. This time, however, you’d like it to be different. You’d like to stay with this girl and hold her hand forever. You don’t want the relationship to fade away like the others. If you’re looking for a lasting relationship, it’s important to realize that the puppy love will fade away. There’s nothing you can do to stop that. There are things that you can do to keep your relationship strong and special though.

First, make sure that you have common interests. You don’t need to love all of the same things, it’s better if you have your own private interests as well. However, you can’t expect to keep a girl in your life that doesn’t share any common interests with you. This is one thing that can hold you together. As you grow old together, you’ll find that those common interests bind you.

Second, allow yourself to spend some time apart. If you suffocate each other, you’ll both run the other direction. Everyone needs to have some things that they do alone or with other friends. When you see each other every day for hours on end, you’ll start to feel confined and cornered. Make sure you have something that you do by yourself (yes, your work can count as some time away unless you work together) and one or two interests that you pursue on your own.

Balance is important in all lasting relationships. 

Lastly, make sure the connection you have is real. If you aren’t connecting with each other and sharing your intimate thoughts, then you’re likely to fall apart. Let her into your world and she’ll let you into hers. Then you’ll be able to stay connected forever.

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Are you looking to go on your first couples retreat? Are you confused by all of the options? Need help making a decision? I’ll help you discover what it is that you should be looking for when booking your first couples retreat.

First Couples Retreat
Wherever you go, there you are.

So you’re ready to go on a couples retreat?  There are hundreds of other couples just like you across the country who are packing their bags, ready for a chance to repair or rejuvenate their relationship.  To get the most out of a couples retreat, you and your partner need to be very clear about what it is you want to get out of the retreat.

Some couples retreats are tucked away in scenic valleys or overlooking majestic mountains.  The point of these retreats is to offer couples a break from the normal grind of daily life.  They’re more like couples oriented vacations, where there are a lot of activities meant to build intimacy and rejuvenate your marriage.  Some of these retreats have group activities where you’ll meet other couples.  Usually there is a theme, like a tropical island or a rustic retreat.

You’ll find a variety of different activities to choose from when you go, so be sure that you bring the right clothing and are prepared to venture outside your comfort zone.  You might be swimming with dolphins, hiking up steep cliffs, or exploring the deep forest at your retreat.  Bring your adventurous side, and you’ll have fun.

If you are going on a couples retreat because you want to repair your relationship with your spouse, then you’ll do less vacation and more therapy with a professional, certified therapist in a private setting.  These types of retreats are more vigorous, and you’ll be talking about your marital problems at length.  The reason for the retreat is so that you can relax and not worry about being judged or having to deal with the problems of the outside world.  You can simply focus on your relationship.

Whether or not you are going to fix a relationship or just to have fun, knowing the reason why you want to go on a couples retreat will make it that much better!

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Being able to get your wife in the mood is central to having a happy marriage.

One principle that I believe will really help to get your wife in the mood is the principle of touching as physical intimacy.  Getting your wife in the mood involves building up intimacy and desire, and touching is the most effective way to do this.

Getting your wife in the mood requires good foreplay.  You have to build up to it.  One thing I do to get my woman in the mood is to spend lots of time cuddling.  You simply lie next to your mate, and lightly feel each other’s skin.  Women respond to tactile stimulation even more so than men.  That’s why this method works.

You may have the best techniques in the world for turning a woman on, for giving her an orgasm and for somehow being a sexual hero, but you may not be able to get your wife to budge on saying “yes” to sex.

What works more than pretty anything else is having a lot of physical connection, touching, and closeness in your relationship. A key to get your wife in the mood is building that connection.

So I encourage you to spend more time touching your wife.  Give more hugs, hold her hand more often, kiss her more, or engage in more foreplay. Get your wife in the mood through building more tension.

You’ll find that the more you’re touching here and there, the more of a physical bond there is.  And you know what that means.  It means you’re going to have more sex. You can get your wife in the mood if you create the most powerful physical intimacy.

In order for her to want you she has to feel comfortable around you, and that there is a connection.  Some women are more in tune with their animal selves than others, but technique is a surefire way to spend more time in the bedroom.

Think back to when you first started dating.  A lot of times we just touch our partner without thinking about it.  When our relationship was just getting started, physical intimacy came naturally.

Maybe you want sex but maybe you’re not good and sharing physical contact and getting her warmed-up.

Perhaps you’re just not good enough at non-sexual touch because women need to have a lot of confidence and support and intimacy in relationships and one of the best sources of these feelings and emotions is being touched.

So I highly recommend going back to the drawing board and analyzing the amount of physical contact you have in your relationship. To get your wife in the mood is to enjoy your relationship.

Look to seriously ramp up how close you are physically and get her to feel comfortable and warm and trustworthy in your eyes.

You’ll find there’ll be a very close connection between the amount of touching in your relationship and the amount of sex you’re having.

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When searching through various relationship retreat options, do you find yourself asking “Is it worth it?”

Relationship retreats are usually a good idea.  I’m not saying this because I am being paid by one to advertise.  No, in fact, I have actually been to one when my relationship was really on the rocks, and it set us on the right course.  If you know how to choose the right relationship retreat, then you can enjoy a wonderful relationship yourself.

All relationship retreats are not created equal.  You want to go on a retreat where you can truly cut off the rest of the world.  This is so important if we’re experiencing rockiness in our relationship.  Part of the allure of a relationship retreat is that it’s like being in another world.  It makes it easier to psychologically segregate the problems from our old lives so they don’t spill out into the retreat.  I find it harder to fix old behavior patterns if we’re still in our old environment.

Try and pick a retreat that’s in a scenic spot.  The one my girlfriend and I went to was in the Rockies where we were greeted with a spectacular view of the mountains every morning.  Some people might prefer a tropical island where they can swim with dolphins, or maybe a starlit forest is more to your taste?  Do not do relationship retreats in cities or in a spot that’s not peaceful and relaxing.

Most relationship retreats will offer some form of couples therapy, whether it be group therapy or one on one with a professional counselor.  One of the biggest red flags that you can look out for is if there is not professional counselor with a degree.  If you want help for your relationship and things are really looking bleak, do not bother with the place if you are not going to talk to a counselor with a degree from an accredited university.

What makes relationship retreats great is that you can meet other couples and get out of your little social bubble.  All too often I see couples who are doing well, but their social life collapses because they spend a little too much time with their significant other, and not enough time forging relationships with other people outside their marriage.  This is so important, because it keeps our main relationship healthier when we are more rounded as people.  Also, one good way to keep the stress off a relationship is having someone to talk about your problems with in an informal, non judgmental setting.

Simply put, they work. Rekindle your relationship at a relationship retreat. 

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Love and poetry go hand in hand.  When we are in the midst of a wonderful relationship, everything just seems better.  The air smells fresher, food tastes better, and we have a sense of inner peace.  Enjoy these inspirational relationship quotes, and see if the joy these people have experienced is similar to yours.

Take some time off and enjoy these inspirational relationship quotes

“Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.”
― Rumi

“How can something as fragile as a word build the whole world?”
―Franny Billingsley, Chime

Love me when I least deserve it, because that is when I really need it.

– Swedish Proverb

Love one another but make not a bond of love.
Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.
– Khalil Gibran

Love does not claim possession, but gives freedom.
– Rabindranath Tagore

Who, being loved, is poor?
– Oscar Wilde

Where There is Love, Nothing is Missing.
– Jonathan Lockwood Huie

Marriage, ultimately, is the practice of becoming passionate friends.
– Harville Hendrix

Love is saying “I feel differently,” instead of “You’re wrong.”
– Anonymous

Friendship often leads to love, but lust seldom leads to friendship.
– Jonathan Lockwood Huie

Love that does not renew itself every day becomes a habit and in turn a slavery.
– Khalil Gibran

I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you.
I love you not only for what you have made of yourself, but for what you are making of me.
I love you for that part of me you bring out.
– Roy Croft

True love has no limits.
– Anonymous

If I never met you, I wouldn’t like you.
If I didn’t like you, I wouldn’t love you.
If I didn’t love you, I wouldn’t miss you.
But I did, I do, and I will.
– Anonymous

Love is not a mere sentiment.
Love is the ultimate truth at the heart of creation.
– Rabindranath Tagore

You are my ground and you are my rainbow.
You are my butterfly and you are my ecstasy.
You are the start of my journeys and always my destination.
You are my home – the place to which I always return.
– Jonathan Lockwood Huie

I hope that you enjoyed these relationship quotes.

They make me smile and I’m sure they made you smile as well. Perhaps one of these relationship quotes gave you an idea to rekindle the passion within your own relationship. If you still need more practical advice then read some of the other articles on this site. They are specifically tailored to different problems.

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When you want to learn how to turn your boyfriend on, it’s important to learn male psychology.  You need to become the “seductress.”

In order to really turn your boyfriend on, you need to take on the persona of the seductress.  You need to learn how to turn your man wild by blowing his mind.  If you understand how the man’s mind works, you’ll be able to do this easily.

It’s important to think about what is going on outside of the bedroom in your relationship if you want to turn your boyfriend on. Often times, men are turned on outside of the bedroom and you want to explore that option.

You see, sex is not just in the bedroom.  It’s something you have to ooze from your system.

Masterful women are very smart when it comes to playing the dating game. Different things work for different people and they realize that. You can begin to master how to turn your boyfriend on by realizing that it is an entire lifestyle thing.

Upgrade your sex appeal. To turn your boyfriend on is to realize that it’s usually dependent on your sexual power.

You don’t want to turn him on in the bedroom before sex. Rather, you want to make it a 24 hour a day process. He’s always thinking of sex. Make sure he is thinking about sex with you.

I once had a girlfriend that would often go “commando”. I didn’t need much encouragement…

Sex appeal is going to work like a charm on your big guy, you don’t need to be the most attractive girl in the world to have sex appeal either. You just need to have a sense of confidence and a sense of power. Find power within your femine energy and locate your sensual energy. Being able to turn your boyfriend on is something you already have inside you.

Men naturally respond to this, do not underestimate your power!

There’s something deeply mysterious and attractive and charismatic about a woman who understands the power of her feminine charms.

Mastering the knowledge of how to turn your boyfriend on might be a path of powerful self-discovery for you.

A woman who walks a certain way, talks a certain way and has very sexy seductive body language says something. If you study Megan Fox, you can see it is in the way she holds, carries and expresses herself that make women and men go crazy after her.

Being able to turn your boyfriend on is not just about being hot. It’s about how you carry and express yourself.

Take a holistic approach to turn your boyfriend on – that’s usually the most powerful way to do it.

Learn to turn your boyfriend on by mastering teasing and seduction.

Not being able to turn your boyfriend on might be a sign that you need to improve your sex appeal and clear any sexual blocks you might have.

Do that and knowing how to turn your boyfriend on will happen naturally for you.

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How safe is online dating really?  Well, the short answer is “Pretty safe.”  It’s a good idea so long as you follow some basic, common sense rules.

Online dating is more popular than ever.  Millions of people are online, right now, looking for their next Romeo or Juliet to sweep them off their feet.  Online dating offers all sorts of venues and can be tailored to meet your expectations.  If you want to get married, then there are online dating sites for you.  What if you just want a steamy encounter?  There are plenty of those sites you can visit.  As always, though we need to exercise caution.

Anyone can use these sites, and I mean everyone.  Everyone has probably heard of the Craigslist killer, the man who would put up an ad on craigslist and kill the unfortunate victim that came along.  These are of course the exception.  If online dating sites were death traps, then no one would go to them and they’d be nowhere near as popular as they currently are.  You can go to almost any site and expect that you’ll be fine, but there are some pointers you may want to keep in mind:

1. Don’t give out too much personal information in your profile

It’s best if you just keep your online profile to light information like your name, your favorite color, or whether or not you think the Beatles are the best rock band ever, you should be fine.  Do not put your address or phone number on your profile.

2. Be careful when you first meet people

Be sure of who you are talking to.  Just because the profile shows a hot girl or a hunky guy, doesn’t mean that that’s actually whose there behind the profile.  Most dating sites do a great job of screening people, but really, you can never be too careful.

3. Set meetings in public places

Do not meet at your place on a first date.  It’s not safe.  No matter how much you think you know the person on the other end, it’s just plain safer to meet at a cafe or a bowling alley when starting off a relationship.  Always have your first meeting during the day where there are lots of people around.

Online dating is a snap and it’s so easy to find your dating niche, no matter if you’re looking to date a person of a certain religion, ethnicity, or who has the same relationship expectations that you have.   Online dating is mostly safe, and with some common sense, you won’t be landing on the front page of any newspaper.

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Have you ever wondered whether or not you should use a personal ad online?  Will it make you look desperate, or is it the new wave of dating?

Taking out an online personal ad is a great idea, so long as you’re smart about it.  Millions of people do it, it’s no longer seen as something that only the desperate and lonely turn to.  In fact, one fifth of all marriages in the U.S. started from online dating.  It’s difficult to actually find someone nowadays.  Not everyone’s daily life is the set of a romantic comedy.  This is fine!  You can have a great relationship from a personal ad.

Get online, and find some of the free online dating sites to take out a personal ad.  Do not give out too much information, like your address.  You should use basic common sense when working online so that you are not the target of identity theft or someone with a mental disorder.  Now that you’ve got a good looking profile, you can start looking for a date!

Be clear with yourself beforehand on what you are looking to get out of having a personal ad.  If you are just looking for a quick date, a hot steamy romance, or someone to walk down the aisle with, then that’s fine.  Just be up front and pick the right website that reflects what you want to do.  There are hundreds of online dating sites of every niche possible.  You can find one that’s perfect for you.

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