So you have been broken up for a while, but now your ex boyfriend wants to get back together. What are you supposed to do in this situation? Though you may be an emotional wreck and are unsure of what decision you want to make, there are some ways in which you can figure out the best path for yourself. By asking yourself these essential questions, you will be able to determine whether or not you should agree to your ex-boyfriend’s plea to restore the relationship.
Do you still care about him? This question is absolutely vital in figuring out what decision to make. If you no longer have feelings for him, the relationship will never be successful. Though you do not want to hurt him, entering in a relationship with him when you do not truly care will ultimately hurt him even worse. However, if you still have feelings for your ex, then you should consider giving both him and the relationship another chance.
Does he make you happy? Do you feel like a better person around him? If you believe that your ex-boyfriend brought you joy in life, then do not let him slip through your fingers. By all means, give the relationship a second chance. Just because it didn’t work out the first time does not mean it never will. On the other hand, if being with your ex made you feel miserable all the time, then do not get back together with him.
If you still care about him and enjoyed having him in your life, then you must ask yourself a final question – are you willing to give him another chance? Though he may have messed up once, it does not mean that he will mess up in the future. He is only a human, and if you think he is worth it, then go ahead; forgive him for his faults and give him a second chance.