Are you in an off and on relationship? It happens. One week you are madly in love and the next week you feel at odds with your girlfriend. How do you stabilize these types of relationships?
If you want to get your ex-girlfriend back and get her back for good, then there are things you can do to actively change the situation. If your relationship is unstable, and you fall in and out of love, then you need to think about what you want to do with your relationship. Some people are okay with being together for two months, off for three, and then back together again. In fact, I knew a couple like this. What can we learn from them?
My two friends are passionate for each other. Maybe a bit too passionate. When they are together, they practically hang all over each other. They love to go on short trips to somewhere tropical and come back with a photo album of great pictures. They call each other “honey” and “sweetheart” all the time. But then, they’d have a blowout. I know, because the boyfriend would call me and tell me all about it.
Couples like this have their extreme ups and downs. They are together because of the extreme attraction for one another. There is a lot of great sex, but the problem is, they have all sorts of other problems. They are really two incompatible people. She is rather uptight and straight laced, while he is rather free spirited and sometimes sloppy. Arguments between people with their complete opposite personalities is inevitable.
So, I bet you think that they’re separated now right? Nope, in fact they’re married, and happily at that! They learned to work through all of their problems, even though they still seem to be on the edge, at least from my eyes. See, the guy, my friend, knew just how to get her back every single time.
Strategies for attraction
His strategy was something to behold. See, he knew how to build attract. He knew how to be manly, he knew how to be his own person, and he knew all of the different keys to attraction. Sure, there were always fights, but he knew how to maintain himself and be assertive about what he wants and who he is. His girlfriend could never resist, no matter how big their blowouts were!
If you want your ex-girlfriend back and want her back for keeps, you need to be like my friend. When you go back to your girlfriend, don’t grovel! You must be assertive. Assertiveness doesn’t mean that you have to be mean or abusive. It means that you know you want, and that other people are not going to define you. You are the one that defines you. For a man, this is practically an aphrodisiac for women!
More strategies to getting your ex-back and keeping it that way
If you want your girlfriend to really see that you’re a keeper, you have to keep the relationship fresh. If you start seeing each other practically every day, start to back off. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. If you busy yourself with volunteer work and doing whatever your life journey takes you, then she’ll notice that you’re out there and that you’re living your life. It’ll also let her know that she can start thinking about you in the long term.
A woman wants a man who has a zest for life. You have to let your girlfriend know that 5, 10, even 20 years from now, you are going to be on a great life journey that never ends. No one wants monotony and no one wants to be stuck in a rut. Don’t be that guy. Be the guy that grabs the bull by the horns.
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