I’ve got some tough advice for you if your ex-girlfriend has a new boyfriend and this really bothers you…
It’s time to move on.
That’s my advice in a nut shell, and some may think that it’s too harsh, but the reality of the situation is that your ex-girlfriend has moved on with her life and it’s time for you to do the same. If you are already cooking up cockamamie plans to try and win her from her new boyfriend or something along those lines, stop yourself. Remember, relationships are not competitions and they are not supposed to be the source of acrimony and negativity in our lives. Relationships are supposed to be wonderful affairs.
I understand you might be jealous deep down inside. After all, her finding a new boyfriend is essentially her way of saying that she doesn’t need you any more. What more evidence do you need? She has moved on with her life, and is probably enjoying herself. Even if you think that your ex-girlfriend got a boyfriend to make you jealous as part of a silly little game, the last thing you want to do is play into her hands.
What you should do is search on this site for my advice on what to do after a breakup. It’s so important that we know how to move on past things in life and move forward. There’s only one direction we live, and when we live in the moment and think about ourselves, we tend to be happier. The best thing you can do for yourself right now is to focus more on your own happiness.
Usually I recommend that people who are feeling jealous of their ex busy themselves with something else. You should drop off the radar. Don’t talk to any of your current friends, don’t be on Facebook, just literally drop off the face of the earth and come back a new you. Watch people’s reaction when you do! You’ll love it.
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