What I recommend to do if you have a fight with wife is to turn your normal strategy upside down.
You’ve probably had fights with your wife when you were dating, so is handling it really so different when you’re married? It can be.
Always remember to remain firm and assertive. You do not want your wife to lose respect for you by thinking you’ll just agree with her on everything and do whatever she says. You’re married because she was attracted to you for being a man, so do not think just because you and she are married that you suddenly have to agree with everything. Remember, being assertive does not mean being a jerk. It’s just means you understand your own boundaries.
If you find yourself having lots of fights with your wife, then you need to take a moment, calm down, and think through the situation logically. Is she just releasing stress and you get goaded into having a fight? Is she criticizing you and thinks you aren’t providing enough for the family? Does she think you go with your friends too much. You need to think about the fight from her perspective, but always remember to maintain your own boundaries and what you want.
Sometimes women see men as projects, they think they can change you the way they want to change you. Now that you’re married, she may think that her project is complete, but then you remind her that you’re your own man. She may try to push again to get you to change your behavior, but then you don’t go along with it. In these cases, remain firm so long as your behavior is not having a negative effect on yourself.
Sometimes women think you spend too much time out with your friends, at the bar, or doing other things besides being home and caring for your family. Now that men work more and have more demanding careers, it might be not possible for you to take less time at work to be with your family. If you find that you almost never see your kids and your wife is left home alone a lot though, it might be time to rethink your career and make a change. Think about what your life might be like in 20 year and really consider if your job is worth not seeing your children grow up. This will help put things in perspective, and maybe your wife’s criticisms won’t seem so harsh.
If your wife is starting a lot of unnecessary fights and you’re wondering why your relationship is now filled with stress and strife, there may be infidelity afoot. Sometimes, when one partner cheats on the other, they feel guilty for their infidelity and act out in their main relationship. Keep an eye on your partners activities and make sure that this is not the case.
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