To get your ex back you need to be really creative…
You need to remember to keep a healthy mindset about your ex-girlfriend. To get your ex back you need to be a happy guy. Your self-esteem plays a large role in how you deal with a break-up but it can also play a large role in the possibility of rekindling that relationship.
If you suffer from low self-esteem what you’re likely to do when you experience a break-up is lose it emotionally. To get your ex back you need to seriously pull yourself together. The trauma is going to affect you, you’re going to struggle. Being able to get your ex back is about sorting yourself out first. You need to be healed before you can make her fall in love with you again.
You need to find a way to completely accept what has happened and put it all in the past.
Do you deal with problems and trauma with alcohol or drugs? That will not help you get your ex back and most likely, it will ruin your changes of getting her back.
Maybe you don’t have a support network or people to talk to. That’s also going to affect your chances of getting her back.
Part of the process in order to get your ex back is de-stressing so when she sees you – you are completely centered and happy. You are balanced and relaxed. You can’t be a mess.
If you’re lacking in self-esteem you also probably are not being realistic about what the relationship was actually like. It’s probable that you put your girlfriend up on a pedestal and that isn’t healthy.
Now that you’ve broken up with her or perhaps she’s broken up with you – you see only the positive. Remember that she has negative qualities too and neither one of you is perfect.
Find a way to build confidence. Absolute rock solid confidence from the deepest reaches of your core being.
There are two major ways to do this.
The first is testing yourself. It’s very difficult to build your confidence in a room with no windows. To build your confidence you usually have to test yourself physically, mentally, emotionally. So this might mean starting an intense fitness routine or maybe going on some adventure or some exploration.
You’ve got to do stuff that challenges you and pushing you and makes you find confidence from surviving and succeeding in these challenges.
The second is actually studying confidence. Know what causes it and what you can do to influence those factors in your life. Build your confidence and you’ll have a much better chance at winning your ex back.
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