Getting Your Ex Back – What to Do

Getting Your Ex Back – What to Do

Do you wish things could return to the way they were?  Are you thinking about getting your ex back, but just don’t know what to do?  Here’s some food for thought.  

The first thing you need to think about when deciding on getting your ex back is to really think about if that is what you really want.  Seriously, I know it can feel like you desperately want life to return to the way things were.  Everyone feels like that after a breakup or during a massive life change, but there’s no reason for you to make hasty decisions.  You have to take some time to explore your feelings.

Are you just lonely?  Have you not found someone else?  A lot of times we want to get our ex back because our life never moved on from when we broke up.  We never sought new experiences or tried to reinvent ourselves.  Because, if you think about, trying to get back with your ex is saying that you currently don’t have any prospects on the horizon.

Am I a loser for wanting to get back with your ex?

Not necessarily, but if you are trying to get with your ex just because you haven’t moved on with your life, you may want to rethink the entire enterprise.  You see, if you try to get your ex back with a mindset of desperation, then you’re going to have a difficult time.  What’s worse, even if you get back with your ex they may try to manipulate you.  I wouldn’t want your ex to play with your emotions for their own personal gain.

So, if you want your ex back, and you’re only doing it because you’re desperately trying to live in the past, my advice is to forget about the whole thing.  It will not end well.  You cannot go back into the past you have to look forward towards the future.  There’s no other choice.  If you are actually regretful about how you broke up and think that you could have an honestly healthy relationship with your ex, then we have something to discuss.

How do I restart our relationship?

Good question.  First, you have to hit the reset button.  You two have a history together that cannot be erased, but it cannot play a huge factor in how you attract your ex back to you.  You do not want all of the old problems to resurface.  You really want to start off as if you are two brand new people.  This is why you need to take some time to get to know yourself and reinvent yourself.  Start wearing new clothes, going to new spots, and trying new things.  Expand yourself.  Do things that would otherwise embarrass you.

After you start working on the new you, approach your ex in a way where there are no expectations . Do not lay it on too think that you want them to get back with you. In fact, act totally ambivalent and make it look like you would be completely happy whether or not you ever got back together again.  You’ll see their behavior change instantly.

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