Nobody wants to go through a divorce. Sometimes though, even after the fact, you realize you should’ve stayed together…
Getting your wife back is going to be a big project. Marriages end for a variety of reasons, and there are probably really big reasons why you and your wife broke up in the first place. It isn’t unheard of for a man and wife to get back together, even if they separated under bad circumstances. However, it will take some work and you will have to rework your relationship.
Divorce is hard on people and a life altering event, but if you really feel that you could be successful in getting your wife back, then you need to put your best foot forward. You need to do some soul searching and figure out why it is that your marriage was broken in the first place. Was it infidelity? Did you both give into the stresses of work and family? Did you argue all the time about minutia? You have to identify the problem first before you can fix it.
Once you know what the problem is, you need to go about fixing it. Maybe you need a career change, or to grow more as a person? If there was infidelity, then you will have to rebuilt the trust in your relationship. Make some overtures to your ex-wife before you go too gung-ho. She might look at your initial romantic advances with some suspicion.
How should I let her know how I feel?
You want to make small gestures towards your ex-wife first, just to see if she is interested. You can’t force anyone to love you, and you can’t force the way she feels. Maybe the divorce really upset her, or conversely, maybe she has thus moved on since your divorce and doesn’t feel like letting you back into her life. You’ll have to do some persuading.
Make special time for her. Try to remind her of what life was like when you first dated and you two were falling in love. This will put her in the right mindset. You’ll be the man she knew before the break up and the negative feelings that came from the separation might fade away.
Be patient with the process and don’t expect everything to turn out like a romantic comedy, and you should be fine.
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