Many people ask themselves at one time or another, “How do I know when it’s time to break up?” This is a difficult subject because breakups are often difficult, especially if you have been with someone for a long time.
The first thing you need to do when considering breaking up with someone, is think about your relationship together. Is it rewarding? Do you deeply care about the person? How do you care about them? Do you just want to be there for them as a friend or do you desire something more? Listen to what you’re feeling.
If you still feel deeply for your girlfriend or your boyfriend, then stay with them! If you feel as though it’s time to move on, then do so! It’s all up to you.
If you think it’s time to break up with your significant other but you aren’t really sure, then consider how the relationship has been over the last month or two months. Do you get excited when you go out together? Does calling or texting your significant other feel like a chore or is it fun?
When it becomes a chore to communicate with your partner and to spend time with them, then it’s time to break up. You should be enjoying your time together, not wishing it would end.
How do I know when it’s time to break up? When I no longer enjoy spending time with my significant other or I no longer have any desire to kiss him/her and just want to be friends.