You want to be the guy that rides off into the sunset with the girl. You want to be the guy that gets the date. This is how to be that guy that every girl wants.
Magnetic. Attractive. On point. These are words that describe that guy that every girl wants. You want to be that guy. You want to win and get the girl that will complete your life. In fact, you want the girl that will add to an already complete life. You see, girls want winners.
A man is supposed to be in control of his own destiny and life. Men work hard and then come home and play hard. The woman is supposed to bring life into that scenario, and she wants to find the right man to do that. You can be that man, but you have to get your mind in gear. It’s an inner game.
If you’ve ever tried to pick a woman, you’ve encountered that feeling of failure when she says, “No, thanks.” How do you change that into a “Sure” or “I’d love to?” It may not sound possible, but it is. It all depends on the way in which you approach women, but also in the way you present yourself.
How do I approach her?
When approaching a woman, keep it simple. The goofy pick-up lines rarely work and the over-the-top mushy love messages don’t work either. Be simple. Tell her you love her smile or the way that her eyes sparkle. Then ask if you could take her out on a date. If she says no, don’t worry. Move on. However, don’t be that guy that walks around the club asking every girl in sight. You won’t get her that way.
How to be that guy that every girl wants. Does that sound nice? Believe it or not, it’s possible.
Show her that you like yourself. Be confident. Have personality. Take care of your body. In a nutshell, these are the qualities that girls want to see. If you present yourself as someone who has these things, she’ll be interested in dating you immediately.
A girl is looking for someone to share life with. That is a woman’s main concern. She is not interested in someone that is not at their core not interested in living life. If you are overweight, depressed, and have low self esteem, then she cannot see herself having a positive life experience with you. The only thing that can come of it is a dependent relationship.
How can a guy who isn’t all that get the girl?
Many times, men who aren’t the most attractive or who do not have the best bodies, are able to win over the most beautiful girl because they exemplify these traits. They like themselves enough to be confident, but they aren’t arrogant. They remain normal, down-to-earth and approachable. They have a personality, whether they are funny or serious, quiet or outspoken. These men know who they are and they share that with the world. That’s what makes them interesting and that’s how to be that guy that every girl wants.
You can be you. Just be the best version of you. As Emerson once said, “Make the most of yourself, for that is all there is of you.”