How to Make Up After a Fight

How to Make Up After a Fight

If you need to make up with your partner there are some do’s and don’ts to consider.  

So, you and your significant other have had a big blow out, and now you want to know the best way to makeup so that you can move on with your lives?  Well, good!  There are some things you need to keep in mind when making overtures to your mate, because while you can easily repair your relationship and get back on trap, you do run the risk of setting yourself up for another big argument.

First off, I hope you have not been brooding and have gone back to your routine and living life.  Fights happen in couples.  There’s nothing strange about it, and most certainly nothing to halt your life.  If you’re ready to include your significant other back in your life, then it’s time to make the first overture if they have not already done so.

Now, depending on the nature of your argument there are all sorts of way to let your partner know that “Hey, I want to restart our relationship and move past this bit of ugliness.”  It could be as simple as a phone call or a visit to see your partner after work.  If you are genuinely in the wrong, then do not be afraid to apologize with a gift or to simply say “I’m sorry.”  Those two words have healed so many relationships!

If you had a really horrible argument and you do not feel confident that your partner will just start from scratch, then it’s not a bad idea to schedule some time to sit down with them.  Most fights start because of some misunderstanding and a lot of times it’s where one side isn’t honest enough with the other.  We’re so afraid to hurt the people we love that we hold things back, but make the situation worse in the long run.

One of the best pieces of advice I ever gave a friend was to try and turn an apology meeting into a date.  My friend invited his girlfriend to see a waterfall.  The scene was romantic, and a lot of the problems they experienced just melted away once they got away from the world of stress, cell phones, and angry bosses.  Changing your environment is a strategy that works.

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