Figuring out how to make up with your girlfriend is an exercise in emotional intelligence.
The most important thing to remember when you’re thinking about how to make up with your girlfriend is to maintain your dignity and remember the principle of “assertiveness.” Assertiveness means to remain firm about things you hold dear, what you think, and your beliefs. It does not mean to be abusive and it does not mean you have to be a jerk. Where does the principle of assertiveness fit in when making up with your girlfriend?
Evaluate the situation
If you had a fight or a prolonged battle with your girlfriend, don’t worry about it. It happens. It’s not the end of the world. Do not prophesize gloom and doom before gloom and doom even comes. Calm down and think about something else for a while, so that when you come back, you can look at the situation as cool and calmly as possible.
In any argument, both sides will think they’re right and the other is wrong. Sometimes they’re both right. You probably had some good points in the argument and she did as well. It’s in the past now though. That’s how you should approach it. If you said something awful that you should not have said, then our principle of assertiveness says you should value yourself and apologize.
However, do not grovel. This is an attraction killer. A person who values themselves and is assertive knows that they do not need to beg other people for approval, they simply state their position honestly.
Let the past be the past
This is great advice and it doesn’t just apply when figuring out how to make up with your girlfriend, it applies to just about everything we do. The argument you had with your girlfriend is in the past. Start acting like it! You can’t change anything that’s been said and you cannot go back, so why fret about it now?
Show her that a future with you will be fun, interesting, and that you will always be assertive and strong when the hardship hits. A steady, strong, assertive man is attractive to women. She’ll be so into you, so attracted to your strength, she’ll probably instantly forget what the argument was even about.
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