To stop your divorce, you need to take stock of what’s really important in life and grab hold.
How bad do you want to stop your divorce? Sounds like a silly question huh? Well, it’s really important to focus on just how much you want to keep your marriage. How important is it to you? Are you a better person now that you are married? To what lengths would you go to make sure your marriage is secure. Answering these initial questions will help you figure out the next part of your journey.
If you feel that you need to stop your divorce at all costs, that if you were to be divorced, your life would be effectively crushed, then I’m glad you’ve figured it out. See, I always ask people how much they want to stop their divorce, because it helps them think about why it is they value their relationship. One problem in long term relationships is that you get so familiar with a single person that you start to forget the many reasons why it is you treasure them.
The best advice I can give you on how to stop a divorce is based on rediscovering what it is you find irresistible about your partner, and having them rediscover it with you. One exercise I find that helps people a lot is for them to list the five most wonderful things about their partner that they can think of. It sounds weird, I know. If you’re in the middle of a fight, how could you possibly be thinking good things about your partner? This exercise takes the strife and anger out of the situation and instead focuses both members on the positive.
If you really feel that focusing on the positive is not going to cut it for stopping your divorce, then I highly recommend for you to see a marriage counselor immediately. They can delve into the complex psychological reasons you and your spouse are having problems. You may need a professional to help you wade through any abuse or trauma you or your partner may have experienced from an earlier relationship.
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