Winning back your ex-husband can be fun and a great adventure, or it can be a nightmare. You need to do some soul searching before you begin.
This is the million dollar question: how to win back your ex-husband? I can’t give you all the answers, but I can lead you in the right direction so you can formulate your own plan to rebuild your life. It seems so hard to get back with an ex. After all, the relationship ended for a reason and more often than not, not on good terms. How do we repair it?
First, get real with yourself.
Why do you want to get back with your ex? Why not just move on and find a new man to spend the rest of your life with? Why not just change your life and go onto a new relationship with new adventures and new excitement? This is an important question you must ask yourself before moving on.
If you just want to get back with your ex-husband because you felt hurt at being rejected, then it may be best to move on. You never want to deal with someone from the perspective of desperation. That will open you up to manipulation and emotional blackmail. If that becomes the case, getting back with your ex husband has no meaning.
I really think my life would be better with him.
If that is actually the case, then we can talk turkey. To get your ex husband back, you’ll have to change deeply on the inside. I’m not talking about getting new earrings or a new dress, I mean you’re going to have to take everything bad about your old relationship and throw it out the window.
You will have to objectively look at your old life. What caused your old relationship to break down? Was it money? Was it communication? What was it really? You’ll have to be brutally honest with yourself. Many times it’s not all one thing or the other. Were you being as attentive to his needs as you could be? Were you doing everything you could do as a wife?
It’s all too easy to blame our ex for everything that went wrong in a relationship. What about your contribution to you happiness as a couple? You can never change another person’s behavior, you can only influence it. You can ,however, change your behavior for the better and increase your chances and rekindling an old flame.
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