Losing the man of your dreams is certainly not a fun experience for any woman, and it may seem like the end of the world. Though you may want to scream “I want my boyfriend back” at the top of your lungs, do not fret over your feelings of loss. No matter how terrible you may be feeling you need to put down the pint of chocolate ice cream, get off the couch, and choose between two options: winning him back or moving on with your life.
After breaking up with a boyfriend that you really cared about, you may feel completely unhappy, heartbroken and alone. These feelings are perfectly natural, and so is your desire to have him back in your life. However, you need to ask yourself an important question before you decide what to do – is he worth it?
If you have decided that yes, he is worth the time and effort it might take to win him back, then go for it. Though this may be a huge challenge, if you really love him, you will regret not making an attempt at the very least. One way to get him to take up interest in you again – and to give yourself a boost of confidence – is to look your absolute best. You can do this by getting in shape and changing up your look. Also, do not be afraid to send him the occasional text message, or even call him up to see how he is doing. However, do not go overboard. You do not want to be labeled as the psychotic, stalking ex-girlfriend.
If you have contemplated the situation and decided that no, he is not worth your time and effort, then move on! Though it can be hard to have confidence in yourself after a rough breakup, it is essential to do so. Ignore your insecurities and focus on all your attributes. You are beautiful, and do not doubt that fact for a second. The perfect man is still out there for you!