If you’re thinking “I want my ex back”, then chances are you’re feeling pretty low. You may be losing confidence in yourself. What I want to do is help you boost your confidence. It’s through this extra confidence, that your ex will come crawling back to you.
When you gain confidence, everyone around you will notice. She’ll notice especially. Boosting your confidence will help you turn your “I want my ex back” plea to a “I have my ex back” statement.
I want my ex back, so should I beg?
No. Let her come to you by showing her what she’s missing. Avoid being clingy and needy. The first thing you should do is surround yourself with confident people. Their spirit and energy will rub off on you. Try making some new friends as well. Show her that others are still interested in what you’re doing even if she isn’t. It also just makes you feel good about yourself, which can keep your confidence high.
But I just want my ex back! If you focus on yourself, then you enact change. Changing yourself, for the better, will not only make you more attractive to your ex but it will make you happier! It’s a double win.
So make sure you hang out with people that believe in themselves, are happy, are confident. The go-getter’s is where it’s at.
The second thing you need to do is start to overcome your fears. Don’t let anything hold you back. Right now, sit down an write out a list. Try to focus on one fear each week. It may take a few “focus weeks” to eliminate a fear. Depending on how deeply rooted the fears are, you may also wish to see a therapist to help.
A guy whose confident actually tends to enjoy embracing his fears and going after them.
You get it. Confidence comes from overcoming fears and doing things ouside your comfort zone. So start!
The third thing you should do is SOCIALIZE! How will this help me? I just want my ex back. Then read on!
It’s no surprise that people often connect shyness with a lack of confidence so look to be just a little bit more social, meet some new people, get out there a little bit more and start to even talk to groups of people or attractive women that you normally would avoid. I’m not asking that you become an outgoing, life of the party guy. I’m just asking that you put yourself out there a bit more. It will help with your self-confidence.
Lastly, focus on doing everything to the best of your ability. This is a good strategy for everyday life as well as relationships. Don’t talk negatively to yourself. Encourage yourself with your self-talk. This will help. Then, whatever it is that you do, try to do your best. People who do this are called “naturals” and it’s often said, “yeah, that guy is just a natural with women.” You can be that guy. Get ready. Set. Go!
You don’t have to be the guy that waits at home saying, “I want my ex back. All I want is my ex back.” You can be the guy that makes a change and finds himself saying, “I’m so glad I was able to get my ex back.”
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