I want to help you with some marriage tips, they’re going to make you big difference in marriage.
Don’t worry if your relationship is on the brink! There are plenty of couples who have found themselves in this predicament and have come out stronger for it. It can happen for you too. I always give the same advice when I hear about relationship trouble with any couple: get on top of it and do not wait. Procrastination is deadly when relationship troubles rear their ugly head. Here are some marriage tips for the troubled couple.
Remember when your parents instructed you to never go to bed angry, to try and figure out your problems before going to bed? This sounds like good advice at first, but sometimes couples have deep seated issues that cannot be undone in a single evening. I actually advocate for going to bed angry…in separate rooms. Sounds weird? Well, your grandmother may not approve, but there is a method to my madness.
Everyone needs a time out. One of the big things that can aggravate a troubled couple is to not have breaks in between spats or arguments. Everyone needs time to calm down, and being in a constant aggravated state makes any trouble worse because we end up saying things we shouldn’t. Forcing yourself to stay with your spouse until you deem the problem over can escalate the conflict and cause you to say things you might not want to. If you give yourself a break from your spouse, you can give yourself time to sort yourself out.
Another marriage tip for the troubled couple is to have an area where all stress is removed from the environment. For most couples, this is the bedroom. Most people roll their eyes upon hearing this, but I see so many couples that are stressed out and can’t find solutions to simple problems because they do not have a safe place where it’s just the two of them.
Think of your bedroom as your sanctuary. Remove all distractions. Don’t bring your work into the bedroom. Save all of the file folders, the stacks of papers, and the snacks for the kitchen. The bedroom should be a sacred place where you and your partner are simply there to relax and enjoy one another. This sounds so simple, but you’ll easily find that quarantining a part of your house where your kids cannot enter and where the stresses of the outside world melt away,
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