“My ex girlfriend cheated on me and wants me back.” Thousands of men have found themselves in this position, and many have no idea how to handle the situation. I myself have experienced this before, and – trust me – it’s not a simple position to be in. You may feel hurt, betrayed and confused all at once. If you are positive that you do not want her back, then you have the easier decision. However, if you are unsure if you want her back too, it is important to ask yourself some essential questions.
First of all, it is important that you determine the degree to which she cheated and the circumstances surrounding it. Though cheating is always wrong, there are some excuses that are better than others. Was it only a kiss? Did she say it was a mistake? Did the other man kiss her first? Was she unwilling? It is essential that you listen to her side of the story before you jump to conclusions. Though you may be hurt, it is still important that you are understanding and dignified.
Next, it is important to figure out how deeply you care for her. Would ending the relationship break your heart? Do you truly love her? If so, then would you be able to forgive her for the mistake she made? Though cheating is a horrible act, there are many couples who have been able to work through it and eventually restore their relationship. It may take time, but if you are still in love with her, then allow her a second chance and see how it works out.
If your girlfriend cheated on you very badly, broke your heart, and now wants you back, you should think twice. Though you may still have feelings for her, do not sacrifice your self-respect! Have confidence in yourself, and you will always make the right decision.