Are you in a sexless relationship and want out as soon as possible? Well, here’s some advice!
Sex is a key element to any intimate relationship, and being stuck in a sexless relationship is frustrating, demoralizing, and leaves you with crippled self-esteem. It is easy to feel like you’re drifting further and further apart from your partner once the fire goes out in your relationship. There are many reasons why a passionate relationship has lost its life. You could be stuck in a routine from which you feel there is no escape. Maybe you are stressed from work, family, or other outside forces that make sex the furthest thing from your mind. Before you go looking for a new partner, there are some things you can do to bring passion back to your relationship.
Do not blame yourself or your partner.
Conflict with your partner is never going to bring passion back to your relationship, and can make a sexless relationship that much worse. Most of the time the reason you and your partner are not making love is beyond both of your control, so there’s no use pointing fingers. The best way to fix the situation is to be sensitive to both of your needs.
Start a new chapter.
Take some time and try to rekindle the flame between you and your partner by going on a vacation and turning the cell phone off. It’s time to leave work, family, and all of the stresses that you’re used to and take a vacation. The further away the better, and remember, no laptops or anything that will drag you back to your old life. You’ll feel like you’re in another world, and there is nothing better for healing a sexless relationship than forgetting everything that brought you and your partner to that point and starting anew.
Spice up the bedroom
Try out new positions or role play. Make love in the most romantic spots you can find. Be spontaneous! Go out and go on adventures with your lover and do things that you’ve always wanted to try but always found excuses not to do. Part of the reason you got stuck in a sexless relationship is that you fell into monotony, and new adventures are the best way to free yourself from the grind.