If you’re stuck in a sexless relationship, then I truly feel for you. There are things you can do, but you have to act as soon as you can!
Sometimes a sexless relationship is the result of what I call “bedroom boredom.” You see, sex is supposed to be exciting and creative, and all too often I get emails from couples who know that the spark has gone out of their life. They just feel like sex has become mechanical, and they feel like they don’t even want to have it most of the time.
Bedroom boredom comes from too much monotony. You have sex in the same positions or you have it at the same time during the week. You don’t vary anything up, so of course it becomes monotonous and boring! You are not doing anything exciting! There’s no spontaneity so of course there is no joy in making love. Do not fear though, we can fix this.
Spend more time with foreplay and flirting. You see, we’re naturally sexual creatures, but we need some time to rev our engines. Go on a nice vacation or take some time for a dinner with just the two of you. I used to have no idea how to spice up date night, so I found some time to read about Don Juan. You see, Don Juan was the immortal lover from Spain. He even seduced a nun!
How did he do it? Well, he cordoned off a part of his fabulous mansion (don’t all great lovers have mansions?) and he just had dinner with the nun. He had his servants prepare the food and put it into a slot where Don Juan would get it so that there would be no interruptions. He then focused solely on the nun and stared into her eyes, never interrupting her and concentrating entirely on her.
Well, let’s just say Don Juan enjoyed his evening. He came up with a strange date night, but it worked! What’s missing from a lot of people’s romantic relationship is the feeling of intimacy, that your partner is supremely interested in you and what you want. Take the time to sit down with your spouse and really listen to them. The intimacy will be a shot in the arm.
Finding a boyfriend and girlfriend in a sexless relationship can usually mean that the spark has been lost in the bedroom. It’s time to turn your sex-life from a PG rating to an X rating.
Usually, a very healthy sex life in a marriage or in a relationship comes down to both people always looking to find ways to make it fresh and different and exciting. Being a boyfriend and girlfriend in a sexless relationship can really make all your life boring.
Like anything in life, if it stays just exactly the same, it gets boring.
It’s what worth looking at your sex life and looking if there are things you can do, maybe you can go to an adult store for ideas, and maybe you can explore elements of your sexuality that you haven’t tried before but always look to keep things new and interesting and exciting for your partner.
Getting idea perhaps of some of the things they would want to do or try or have fun with. Being a boyfriend and girlfriend in a sexless relationship can happen to anyone. Even just being busy with work for a while or having other stresses means you can find yourself as a boyfriend and girlfriend in a sexless relationship.
So open your mind to giving more naughtiness a try because sometimes the lack of sex in a relationship can come down to just that feeling of routine and repetition. A real solution to a boyfriend and girlfriend in a sexless relationship is pushing the envelope of sexual deviance.
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