If you want to stop divorce now then time is of the essence. You need a game changer, and you need it NOW.
The way you’ve been thinking about marriage, isn’t working.
Maybe you’re stuck in a rut or maybe you’ve let problems in your marriage reach a boiling point, and now you have absolutely no idea what to do next. This happens to a lot of couples, and you do not need to let this crisis consume you. You can empower yourself. You can stop your divorce now, as of right this second, if you follow some of these tested ideas.
1. Halt any stressful activities and slow down
Stress makes everything worse. It can make arguments fiercer and it can make hurt feelings unbearable. If you are leading a stress filled life, you will need to take a few days off to get your head together. If work is unbearable, take a week off. If your kids are too much, send them to their aunt’s. You and your spouse have to be laser focused on each other during this time, or it falls apart.
2. Stop the blame game
One of the biggest reasons couples reach the boiling point of divorce is because they are stuck in a pattern of blaming each other without thinking about what they’re saying. Yes, this is a harsh indictment of what goes on in a lot of relationships, but I’ve seen it wreck people’s lives. If you want to stop your divorce now, you cannot sit there and blame your spouse for everything.
Remember, a lot of what strains a relationship is how we choose to react to things. It’s really about the inner game, what goes on in the mind. Think about it this way. If your spouse is angry all the time, do you add to the anger by reacting in a hurt manner? Do you try to shout them down? Does that strategy ever work? It couldn’t possibly work!
3. Work on being a world class communicator
Get a book or take a class if need be. Dale Carnegie has written several books on the subject and there are of course the world famous Dale Carnegie courses you can take. You cannot have a communication breakdown now. This would tear apart the fabric of your marriage. You must know exactly how to not only say what you want to say, but learn to get into the head of your listener and be sure they understand you the way you want.
Misunderstandings kill relationships. We end up saying things to satisfy our own ego without really understanding where the other person is coming from. This is marriage poison, and if you want to stop your divorce now, you need to get on this problem pronto!
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