To win an ex-girlfriend back, you need to re-think your approach. You might have to totally reinvent yourself, but that could be a good thing.
One of the challenges that men face when it comes to getting their ex-girlfriend back usually lie in the way that they view their ex-girlfriend. Guys have a tendency to put their ex-girlfriends on pedestals and this makes it very difficult to move on from a relationship or to actually win an ex-girlfriend back. You cannot approach her the way you did before.
It’s all about the inner game. You need your mind in the right place.
It’s okay when they are dating but the moment they break up, the guy has a tendency to view her as “miss perfect” and she isn’t. No one is perfect. The most important thing to realize when trying to win an ex-girlfriend back is that you are not trying to win a goddess back. It is possible but make sure that you actually want to win her back.
Be realistic. Right now, sit down and create a list of all of the things that you didn’t like about her. Get out a pad, a piece of paper, anything. Don’t miss anything! Write down all the big things that annoy you AND the small things you just cannot stand. You need to remember this when looking to win an ex-girlfriend back.
Think of all of the things that were unattractive about her. i want to help you find a much more realistic perspective of what she was actually like and what the relationship was actually like. you need a balanced view if you are going to win an ex-girlfriend back. See, you broke up for a reason. Maybe you were incompatible. Maybe there was infidelity, but there is a big reason why your relationship is over. Think about that.
So start writing. I want you to write for at least a half-hour. Write everything, even the tiniest things, that you didn’t like about her or about the relationship that you were both in. The way that you felt, her personality, her appearance, something annoying that she did all of the time, etc. There are so many possibilities. You can start to win an ex-girlfriend back by taking her off of the dream-girl pedestal that you’ve placed her on. Seriously.
Start preparing yourself to be a better version of yourself.
The next thing I want you to do is look at your list. Select the five things that are the most important to you and write those on an index card or the back of a business card. Put this in your wallet and read it often. If you don’t know who you are, how are you going to attract her?
I want you to keep reminding yourself of these things because this is going to help you get a lot more balanced perspective and to think about her and the relationship in a lot more realistic terms because let’s face it, it definitely wasn’t perfect right?
When you find yourself at the supermarket, reminiscing about your life together then pull out this card. Remember the uglies as well as the pretty parts of your relationship. It’s important to see her as a fellow human being. This is the perspective that you need to approach her from. Remember that and you’ll be on your way to winning your ex-girlfriend back.
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