If you’re tired of being one of the single women, you’re going to have to bring your A game to the dating world. Don’t be scared, I’ll help you out.
You’re single because of the choices you’re making, not because there isn’t anyone interested in you. Many women are single because they don’t go out. If you aren’t going out and meeting new groups of people, then how do you expect to find someone? But what if that just isn’t your style? What if your idea of a great night out is a scrabble board and a cup of hot cocoa?
Not much of a “going-out” type? Then try online dating.
Whatever you do, you need to make sure that you are meeting new people and putting yourself out there. You can’t find someone when you are home alone or spending time with the same friends that you spend time with every week. It won’t work. I’ve seen a lot of shy women try this, but there are no workarounds and no shortcuts to working on this aspect of yourself.
Often there are two things that can hold you back and keep you from finding new and fulfilling relationships. What are those two things?
First, your body. No one wants to hear this but men tend to focus more on bodies and outward appearance. You can make yourself feel better and gain energy by working out. Begin a new fitness routine. It may also inspire the men around you to want to get to know you better. This may sound superficial, but if you plan on having a sex life, then you want to tap into that.
Second, your interests. These are what link you to others and help you explore outside of your own family and friends. Try something new that you’ve always wanted to do but maybe haven’t found the time for. Join a group or a club that is actively involved in this activity and you may find a potential partner there.
The best advice I can give you is to be open and to be available. Don’t shy away from crowds. Men cannot find you if you are at home or with family and friends. Sometimes you need to venture out on your own, try new activities that help you to meet new people and perhaps try online dating. Explore the possibilities and soon you’ll find yourself unavailable 🙂
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