Top 10 Things to Do to Make Up With Your Wife1. Respect Her
This is the key to any successful marriage. Simple tasks like making the bed, doing the dishes, taking out the trash, and putting your clothes in the hamper are easy things that really make a difference to her. This shows that you respect her and are willing to help her out around the house.
2. Compliment Her
A simple compliment can go a long way, especially since every woman just wants to feel valued and loved. You should aim for 3 compliments to every one critique. This will create a more positive environment for everyone involved. For example if she buys something for herself ask to see it, or even for her to model it for you. This interest will show her that you still care when she tries to impress you or dress nice for you. You can even compliment her on how great the house looks or how great the meal tastes.
3. Buy her flowers just because its Tuesday
To make up with your wife try buying her flowers. Pick some random day of the week and pick out some flowers for her and leave a little note saying how much you appreciate her and love her. She will love you and your gesture.
4. Splurge a little
Spoil her. Take her out to eat on a dinner date or a lunch date. She will enjoy going out and being in your company. She will also take pride in the fact that you are willing to splurge a little on her, showing her that she’s worth it.
5. Be patient and calm
Nobody likes to be yelled at and yelling is not a good way to make up with your wife. She can still hear you without yelling and chances are she will respond a whole lot better if you talk in a nice, quiet volume that’s non-threatening.
6. Smile and Stare
We’ve all heard that actions are louder than words, so take the time to just smile. You don’t have to say anything.
7. Tell her you love her
Tell her that you love her and tell her often. Also, try making a habit of kissing her goodbye every time one of you leaves the house. It’s a cute habit that both of you will enjoy.
Anytime your wife has a problem take the time to sit down and listen. Turn off the TV, put away the cell phone and show her that you are her number one priority. Do NOT put her down and make fun of her mistakes because everyone makes them. Sympathize and show that you will support her no matter what.
9. Do something thoughtful to make up
Plan a whole night just about her. Start out by make her favorite meal. You could also give her flowers, and maybe even rent her favorite movie and just spend the night cuddling on the couch.
A sincere apology will go a long way, especially after those first 9 things. A simple “I’m sorry” will begin the process of making it up to her and showing her that you are man enough to swallow your pride and admit that you were wrong.