Top 10 Things to Do to Win Back Your Ex-Boyfriend
1. Say You’re Sorry
Saying “I’m sorry” and asking for forgiveness is the first step in trying to win back your ex. Yes, you will have to swallow your pride and apologize. However, don’t feel like this will be the easy-fix solution to your problem. Be sincere and don’t expect too much because ultimately it will be his decision to forgive you are not, which might take more effort depending on how you broke up with him.
2. Befriend Him & Start All Over
When trying to get your ex-boyfriend back you must earn his trust all over again, because after all you were the one who broke it off. Don’t try to rush this process, take it slow. Acting more like a friend and building up a new relationship between each other is vital. Start over. Don’t put any pressure on him and don’t expect too much. Just see what happens when you put the time and effort into the relationship and it will be up to him to see if you are still worth his love and attention. Starting all over will give you a chance to forget painful memories from past relationships and replace them with new one. A new relationship could even become stronger.
3. Be Yourself
Obviously something about you had caught his eye when you were first together. However, along the way you could’ve changed a lot. So, in order to win your ex-boyfriend back you have to be that person that your boyfriend had first known. Let him see the real you, the old you that he fell in love with in the first place.
4. Don’t act needy
When trying to win him back don’t act too desperate. Don’t try and text and call him every minute of every day. If you do he will think that you are desperate and might even get annoyed.
Relationships are not built on attraction alone. You need to be able to communicate effectively for any relationship to work properly.
6. Forgive and Forget
Leave the past in the past. If he is willing to get back together with you and forgive you then you should both leave negative emotions and events in the past. Relationships are built on mutual respect and love for each other
7. Look Good
At one point your ex-boyfriend was obviously attracted to you and chances are he probably still is. Show him what he’s missing. This doesn’t play a major role in getting him back, but it sure doesn’t hurt either.
8. Just be there for him
Even little things like a good luck text or calling to say that you remembered his mom’s birthday are things that will soften him up. It shows that you still care about him and his life without being too clingy.
Having a healthy level of self-confidence is key for trying to win back your man. Confidence is attractive, and it also makes you feel good about yourself.
10. DO NOT go out, or even flirt with his friends
If your goal is to get back with your ex-boyfriend stay clear of his friends. Not only will this hurt him, but it also sends him mixed messages, and makes it look like you really don’t want to get with him after all.