What to say to get your ex back…

What to say to get your ex back…

The question on your mind is what to say to get your ex back.  I’m sorry, but there are no magic words.

There are no magic words to get your ex back.  If there were, then a lot of people would find it easy to get back with their ex.  In my experience, trying to repair a long dead relationship is not really worth the effort.  You could instead focus your energy on getting into a new relationship or rebuilding your life.

You see, as people we want to go back to periods in our life when we were happy.  We tend to remember all of the great times we had with our ex and how life was so much better.  Well, for one, your relationship was probably nice, but I bet it wasn’t quite as magical as you make it out to be in your own mind.  You see, we have a tendency to focus on what we want rather than looking at what we have.

If you really want to get your ex back, then you are going to have to build some confidence in yourself.  You see, you’re reading this article because you are not sure of how you should approach the situation.  You lack confidence, and you lack  it possibly because your ex rejected you and you feel if you were just given a second chance the relationship would work out.  This is why you’re trying to find a quick fix for your situation.

YOU are the person that is important here, not your ex.  You do not want anyone in your life that does not add to the quality of it.  So, what do you say to them to get them back?  Nothing.  You talk as if you have the greatest life in the world.  You go about your daily routine as you normally would.  You talk about  your hopes, dreams, aspirations, and what you want out of life.

Your ex will notice that in your mind you have moved on.  You are not a person that thinks about the past incessantly to the point where you shut down.  They will be drawn to you, attracted to you, and THEY will be the ones thinking about what they should say to get you back.  Isn’t reverse psychology fun?

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