How to win your ex back…

How to win your ex back…

When you’re looking to win your ex back, you need to develop a good strategy. I’m going to tell you exactly what you need to do in order to win your ex back.

My first piece of advice for you in getting your ex back is to learn as much as you can about the subject. Overload yourself with as much information as you can about break-ups and getting over them.

In our lives, we often shy away from too much information. We don’t want to overwhelm ourselves. When dealing with break-ups and ways to win your ex back, information is crucial. It’s important that you educate yourself as much as possible. Look at books, articles, dvds, etc.

Next, remember that you need to take care of yourself following the break-up. Don’t allow yourself to fixate on your ex too much. Exercise, shower, go to work or school, and focus on your friends and hobbies. If you are overly needy or clingy, your ex is going to stay away.

Everyone goes through break-ups but not everyone fixes them. Make it impossible for her to say “no” by improving yourself.

I was watching a movie recently called “London” that was made in 2005 and it gave a great example of what NOT to do. This guy was really struggling to get over his girlfriend. While they were dating they fought quite a bit but once they had broken up, he couldn’t move on. Although, because it is a movie, it had that fairy-tale happy ending. Your life won’t be like that. You need to take action. Don’t be helpless in this situation. Avoid sitting on the couch and wasting your day away.

Be proactive and to start to take control of the situation.

You won’t be able to make your ex fall back in love with you and you may not get your ex back, but you will at least have a chance if you take action. And you can change the way you feel and how you respond to the situation. Always focus on what is in your control and work on that.

So educate yourself as much as possible, create a plan and take action. Be confident.